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He's moving


Question Posted Saturday June 18 2005, 10:53 pm

13/f

ok so my best guy friend is moving. i used to like him but now im trying not to b/c he's moving and i no it won't work out. but i still want to be friends. how can i still be friend's with him if he's moving like 2 hours away. will being friend's work with him so far away?


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PrincessOfAdvice answered Saturday July 2 2005, 1:14 am:
You can make it work by these ways
#1 write letters to each other
Or
#2 if both have Aol Instant Messenger (AIM) <<<kind of thing, get each others screenames

#3 Call each other

#4 On B-day's/christmas Spend Packages as ya'lls presents to each other

Good Luck i hope i helped

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ComplexMind answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 9:03 pm:
If you really like him that much, distance shouldn't matter. It will only build up the passion for when you see him again. As long as what the two of you really have is special, distance won't destroy it, only preserve it. But at the same time, you need to be committed to him.

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Pinkie123 answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 12:17 pm:
Ya absolutly!! you can accualy visit him if you want on vaca or one weekend!! call on the fone or text him , go on aim , e mail, letters.hope i helped xoxox
tel me how it goes!!

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Lacy answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 10:03 am:
Of course you can still be friends! Think of him as a pen pal. If you want to keep things interesting, mail him a letter instead of writing an e-mail. It'll be more personal, and a bit more fun. You can also send stuff too, like a CD for his birthday. Make plans to get together every few weeks. You could meet somewhere in the middle and see a movie. If he knows you're planning on staying friends, he'll make the effort too.

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lilangelshan08 answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 9:23 am:
yeah, if he's your bud then no doubt you've got him on your buddylist so just IM him and talk to him that way plus there's the phone and when you get your license you can go visit him

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Mackenzie answered Monday June 20 2005, 2:50 pm:
Aww!! I know how you feel; I moved acRoss countRy!!! Moving is haRd.. losing fRiends is TERRIBLY TRAMATIC, I know. HoweveR, just because one MOVES does NOT mean the fRiendship must end!! He's only 2 houRs away- that's pRobably a close enough distance to wheRe you can see him eveRy couple of weeks when youR paRents can dRive you. And theRe's ALWAYS the city bus, if you'Re allowed!!! [some places simply do not have public tRanspoRtation, I know this]. And when you aRe not WITH him.. you can talk to him thRough the inteRnet and on the telephone. And wRite letteRs!! WRiting letteRs is fun, expRessive and veRy peRsonal!! I think even if you DO talk online, you could STILL wRite letteRs; you'll find that it DOES tend to bRing you closeR!!! TheRe's plenty of ways to woRk this out, tRust me!! Best of wished to you, fRom someone who knows EXACTLY what you'Re going thRough!!! :)

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ilovepink101 answered Monday June 20 2005, 10:33 am:
yeah..you guys can i.m. each other..you guys can e-mail each other..i no if you call him that will cost you long distance..but you no you hsve a computer and hopefully he does and you guys can always plan a time to be on and you guys can always tal like old times..now you guys wont be as close but youll no its still him..and maybe if you guys get to liken the keep in touch thing maybe yall will go out..but dont count on it..and dont count on him always being online when you are..and you guys will get a little seperated but you no thats how it goes when your bestfriend leaves..trust me ive moved alot!!!!
well i hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101

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tropicalbaybeex3 answered Monday June 20 2005, 10:27 am:
um i think y0u guys should still be friends even if y0u guys cant hang out as much y0u can talk on the phone and on the computer...... since its summer maybe y0ur parents can drive y0u to see him on like weekends or weekdays ... hope i helped x0x nicole x0x

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karenR answered Monday June 20 2005, 7:23 am:
Being friends will work no matter where he goes. You can write letters and email, you can IM each other etc. Dating is much to hard to do long distance at your age, but friendship can be had from any distance. :)

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kim___xXx answered Sunday June 19 2005, 8:34 am:
Heyy yes f couse still being friends will work.email each othermeet up,write letters,talk on the phone. i think starting a relationship wont work becasue ot the distance between you both but i thiknyour friendship will always be there.
Love kim

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xoxo*london answered Sunday June 19 2005, 12:54 am:
OF COURSE! It's called emailing darling! lol but yeah I mean you can still talk on the phone and internet and stuff..and emailing is good too for long-distance and stuff..hope this helped! <33

xoxo*london

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DonutHolez567 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 11:59 pm:
I have had tons of time to deal w/ this same problem/im 13/f 2 . This is very hard to deal with i wont lie to you. If you both have cell phones this will make it a lot easier,call each other when u are sad and stuffs. If you both are really best friends you wont let any distance come between you. Yeah hope i helped }{ T

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charmed-cherry21 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 11:52 pm:
Yes. Because you can talk to him on the phone and online.

X&hearts;X&hearts;
Charmed-Cherry21

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xOxHOLLiSTERxOx answered Saturday June 18 2005, 11:22 pm:
W0W L0L THAT HAPPENED T0 ME BEF0RE. i GAVE MY GUY FRiEND MY PH0NE # iF HE EVER WANTED T0 TALK T0 ME & HE HAS MY E-MAiL ADDRESS/SCREEN NAME S0 HE CAN TALK T0 ME 0N THAT T00. JUST GiVE HiM Y0UR # 0R ASK HiM F0R HiS S0 Y0U GUYS CAN KEEP iN T0UCH. ALS0 GET HiS E-MAiL ADDRESS/SCREEN NAME iF HE HAS 0NE. iF Y0U GUYS KEEP iN T0UCH THEN YES Y0U GUYS WiLL BE FRiENDS N0 MATTER H0W FAR AWAY Y0U GUYS ARE FR0M EACH 0THER //&hearts;

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eLiSe answered Saturday June 18 2005, 11:03 pm:
Hey babe! YEA YOU CAN STILL BE FRIENDS W/ HIM!!! My best guy friend lives 8 hrs away from me and we've managed to strengthen our friendship over that distance for the past 5 yrs...even tho we're not talking right now haha! But like yall can still IM, email, text, & even call sometimes! You can still talk to him everyday! And it seems like it can't work out right now, and you're right, it prolly can't, but if you lose touch w/ him now, then who knows what could've happened between yall in the future? Ok well hope I kinda helped babe! If you wanna talk about this anymore just IM me anytime! Love yah!

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