see the thing is i have alot of friends but not one best friend i can do everything with. i want my one friend to be my bff but i dunno how, its really confusing and even tho i have friends i feel so alone.....help please
KATAxTHExADViCEgURL answered Sunday July 3 2005, 8:16 pm: i`m sorta like you! i have a ton of best friends, not just one in particular. But i get your feeling, you want someone who`s more than just there for you, someone that you know you can ask for help and would help you in a second, someone who`s at the top of your list.. well, out of all of you friends, try picking one in particular who`s really supportive, who you see often, and know the most. Then try hanging out with him/her more often and get to know each other better. In no time you should have a best friend, and if things don`t go your way, find someone else.
katholeen answered Saturday July 2 2005, 4:37 pm: ... becoming best friends isn't something that you make happen, it's something that just kind of appears over time. No one just starts out best friends, you make a friend, then you get so close that you just know you're best friends. And, best friends don't DO everything together, they're just always there for each other and know each other. If you've known this girl for a long time you probably are best friends. And don't worry about being friends or best friends. It's pretty much the same in the end. [ katholeen's advice column | Ask katholeen A Question ]
eLiSe answered Saturday July 2 2005, 3:14 pm: Wow. You sound like me! I know how you feel bc I don't have a BEST friend here...just tons of friends (love yall) but yea I would just start hanging out a lot more w/ this person you want to be your best friend & talking more online or even calling them just to say hey and ask them about their day and stuff! Hope I helped! Love yah! [ eLiSe's advice column | Ask eLiSe A Question ]
Teza answered Saturday July 2 2005, 2:47 pm: You have to get really close to that friend first. I mean you also have to be able to trust her and stuff and talk to her about anything! Hang out with her a lot and get to know each other way way better and you guys will become really close one day and probablly best friends! // ♥ // [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
partygurl24 answered Saturday July 2 2005, 2:19 pm: I think you should find one of your friends that you guys have a lot of things in common with. That way, you guys can click more. Talk about funny and embarrasing stories with that person. When you guys keep having fun together like this, you guys may turn out best friends. [ partygurl24's advice column | Ask partygurl24 A Question ]
texas_hotti answered Saturday July 2 2005, 1:49 pm: one best friend = TROUBLE! please do not do this! whats gonna happen is your gonna pick one bff and then your other friends are gonna get jealous and think your ditching them! just stay friends with a bunch of people and do things with all of them and once in a while just invite like one mof them over and have all of them as your bff's! hope i helped!!
~Candace [ texas_hotti's advice column | Ask texas_hotti A Question ]
askmex3 answered Saturday July 2 2005, 1:29 pm: Take the extra step and just remember this motto "to have a friend you have to be a friend". Plan trips to the malls/movies/etc and over time you guys will become closer! hope this helps x33 [ askmex3's advice column | Ask askmex3 A Question ]
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