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Out of the Loop
Im 14 year old girl, and my friends are the same age, I went to the beach for a week this past week and my best friend, we'll call her, Jess *hold that thought* I also played volleyball this season and made some great friends and I went to hang out with them and invited Jess. but since I went away for the week. Jess has pretty much taken my place. My friends dont even think about calling me to do stuff... they call Jess, its like. she stole my friends. and shes taken my place in every aspect. I dont remember the last time any of them called to see what i was doing.
I want my friends back.. what do i do
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Talk to Jess and ask her about this...tell her what you told us.
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Your going to have to tell "Jess" how you feel. And you could try calling your other friends to do stuff instead of them calling you. Also if you do that maybe after you do it they might start calling you instead of you calling them.
i hope i helped, Good Luck!
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How about call them? You went away and they probably did get closer to Jess, but that doesn't mean they don't like you anymore. Don't make the mistake of thinking you know what they are thinking if they haven't told you. Lots of friendships end because someone assumes that someone else feels a certain way. Just give them the benefit of the doubt. Tell them you want to hang out and you miss them. Don't think the worst. Just remember what you like about them. Oh yeah, I'm sure your best friend did not try to 'steal' your friends. She probably just liked them too. Go hang out and don't make too much of it. Have fun!!
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Well, when people don't call you. Its probably because you don't call them. Get a .50 cal sniper rifle and shoot Jess in the leg. It'll be funny. BUt also really bad.
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If they were your real friends they would have called you to hang out but simply they are not. I think that you should have a talk with Jess and ask her why cant all of you guys just be cool and enjoy all the stuff together ? Good Luck*.
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