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Hook up or break up!?
I'm girl thats 14 and going into 9th grade, but I'm dating a guy thats almost 17 and going into 11th grade. A couple days ago he told me that before he met me, he made out with pretty much all his friends that are girls, and he misses that because he doesn't see me everyday so hes tempted to do things with them. He asked me if it would be ok if he did stuff with them. and still did things with me too, in other words, have friends with bennefits instead of a relationship. I said no because I didnt want to be his piece of ass, so I told him it was over. Now hes asking me to take him back, and I know I shouldnt but deep down I really want to be with him. what do I do!?
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WOW! GOOD JOB!! Omg i loved what you said
I said no because I didnt want to be his piece of ass, so I told him it was ove
SMART! WOw i like your thinking...
hes a freaking jerk... let go
your to good for him! Make him jealous and get a even hotter guy and make sure that guy isnt a jerk... your bf sounded like a player...major turn off
!LIZ!
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Talk to him and if he says he'll stop doing stuff with his other friends then you should definitly take him back. I hope I helped!!
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♥ oh my gosh. Personally I think he is NOT wortth it. You can do so much better babe. If he cant be focused on you then thats not good. When you are with a guy he should do things with you and not other girls! Its natural for guys to want to experiment with other girls but he has taken it way too far. And i cant believe he wants you back. i would find better guys besides him. But its your choice but you may get hurt if you give hm another chance. Hope i helped! xoxo good luck!
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I think, if he asked you then he at least respects you enough to discuss it first. Being tempted is not the same as cheating. Maybe ask him what he wants out of the relationship with you. Of course you can't make him be faithful...
Now, you say that you know you shouldn't...why? Has he done something or just talked about it? If he's just talked about it - I can respect that because most guys wouldn't have. If he did something - leave him on the curb where you kicked him! If not, then maybe you could give it a try. He should know now that you are not playing because you broke up with him...you never know...he might really want to be with you and just felt comfortable enough to tell you...
Bottom line, go with your gut. Women's intuition is nothing to be fooled with!!!
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He's dumb. Why would he date somone 4 years younger than him? The maturity level is drastically changed between those 2 ages!
For his sake don't take him back.
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dont take him back. he isnt worth it.
*~Stephanie~*
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no you shouldnt because hes going to make out with other girls without you knowing deep down you might want him because your avoidng the fact he might ask again
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well if he want to be with you thats his problem but i wouldnt take back a guy who makes out and stuff with other girls. He's likly to cheat on you. So i would say forget about him. Maybe just stay as friends. Unless you really truly love him. But i think that there's a better guy out there for you.
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Well it's good that you defended yourself, and broke up with him if he just asked you to be friends with benefits..but if you still really want to be with him ; then maybe you should go out with him.. but just lay down the rules about how it's you, and only you. But then again, it would be REALLY hard to trust him, whenever he already gave you that thought of him getting tempted to make out with other girls and stuff, and those temptations would probably come back. So.. I'd suggest not going out with him. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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dont take him back because those temptations of his will come back too, this time he'll probably have friends with benefits and you, just not telling you
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first of all it was very good that you stood up for yourself!! however the only way i would concider going back out with him is if he promises to date you and you only and no friends with benefits either! but it will be tought to trust him just for the fact that he brought up the idea of the friends with benefits...i hope everything works out...just listen to you conscience and follow your heart!
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i say wait a while then if you really want him, take him back and make him swear not to do things with other people and if he does, its over..forever. do what you think is right tho, i dont know your guy or his reputation. <3
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