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Well I'm not really getting invited to too many parties. A girl named Katee had a huge party and I wasnt invited...I feel like a loser and left out....any ways on how to have more friends or something like that?
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Try making new friends and be really nice and invite them to your parties Or Try being extra nice to your friends and invite them to a party of your own!
I hoped i help :)
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It does hurt to be left out of somthin like that. Maybe its cause she doesn't know u that well. Just be friendly to her and talk. Just be nice to people and defintly be yourself and you will have more friends in no time! Hope i helped! Good luck!
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See if your parents will let you have your own party! Invite all your friends, and people you would like to get to know better. People love parties so you're sure to get a lot of people to show up. Recruit a friend to help you plan it if you want, it'll be more fun that way.
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Don't Think you Are A loser Because you didn't get invited to a party becasue I am also having a hard time on get friends and i feel reall bad about it but all you have to do is tell your self that you can make new friends by trying to talk to some girls that you would like to be friends with or have a party and invite some people that you could become friends with.
Good luck!
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ok get out there rtalk to whoever whenever the only way to get people to like you and see who you are is to socailize you cant just expecpt that they know you or that you want to be firneds just start talking to them go to socail events meet new people and try new things and befor you know it you will be popular
hope i helped
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The easiest way to make friends is to be very nice to people and listen to them. If you are a good listener, then people will be drawn to you because lets face it...everyone has something to talk about. If you are always smiling, you will seem approachable and people will not get the impression that you are shy, rude, stuck up...or anything like that. A smile says a thousand words! =) Do not worry about being invited to a party. Half of the people that went are most likely not even her friends and were just using her to have a place to hang out. Just remember to be friendly and smile and you'll have friends within no time! goodluck babe!
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Hey, don't sweat it! Trust me, it could be worse. I haven't been invited to any parties at all. (HAH! Like there are any to go to anyway!) You see, don't let it get you down. There've been times when everyone in the church and most from our grade would get invited to some great big party, then I'd find out about it later and thus discover that I wasn't invited. It doesn't bother me now, becaue I wouldn't've (yes, that's a real word) gone to the party anyway because I don't like those peoples' morals, tactics or life styles. You're not a loser. Though you may be left out, let's face it - <b> outcasts are cool! </b> Seriously, I'm the coolest person I know. Honestly and truely. Just kidding, I'm not that full of myself. I might not be the coolest, but I'm self confident enough to say that I don't care what they think about me. You shouldn't either. I've been called a plethora of names (some of them mild and childish as in : "Stupid" and some more harsh and words that I will not repeat). Just don't let it get you down. If they didn't invite you to the party, obviously they aren't cool enough for you! You're way more cool because you didn't go to the party! At my church, I have one friend. He's the only person who will even dare to sit by me anymore. I've been going to that church for almost five years, and he's still my only friend. Sure, I tried to fit in, but after two years of rejection, I figured it out. If they aren't cool enough to sit by me, to talk to me, to be my friend - oh well. It doesn't bother me because it's their choice not to get to know me. I tried, they refused. -- Don't let it bug you!
Any ways to have more friends? Don't try to impress them. When I see girls (and guys) trying to be cool and impress their peers to be accepted, it makes me sick. It's not worth it. Be who you are and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I'm shy around people I don't know but around my friends I'll talk forever (most of the time). I can be goofy, and I get on sugar/caffine highs when I drink Code-Red Mountian Dew. In fact, that's one thing that my best friend and I will sometimes do together, we'll drink Code-Red Mountian Dew then go crazy. Throwing pillows, pop corn, tickling each other, whatever works. (this is only with my female best friend) Just be yourself. Don't be afraid to go up to someone who looks lonely or afraid, shy or scared and say "Hi!" because that will make their day <u>so</u> much better! And you'll make more friends by talking to the outcasts. We're actually nice people, despite our looks and our popularity status. That's one thing that has never mattered to me, and it shoudn't be so big now - popularity. You'll sail through high school on good looks, charm and popularity, then everyone moves away and you go to college and you have to make new friends. You start off on the bottom - you'll be real humble real fast. Just be happy with who you are and the friends you have. You'll make more soon enough.
-FunnyCide
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If you need more friends, then I suggest becoming more confident and getting to know other people and not caring what they think. If they think you're nice, then get to know them and have fun. You need to ignore all the bad things come people say, because people who make fun of others just means they're not comfortable with thereselves. To make more friends, I suggest joining different camps and doing things with people who have your interests. Before you know it, you'll be getting invited to a lot of get-togethers with friends and different people.
Hope I helped,
~Alexa~
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Self-confidence. Really. Up until college, self-confidence is what enables a person socially. After that, it's based on a lot more things, but self-confidence helps you there, too.
It'll also help you get dates.
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Well, remember just always be yourself. It will backfire on you if you change yourself, or act differently. Its never true when you dont have "any" friends. Dont try to fit in with the "popular crowd". All you could do would be to not be an outkast, and be regonized. Take Care.
♥ Alli*
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