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HI PPL!!! SUP? MY NAME IS KELSEY AND I'M 14! UM... I LIKE SHOPPING, SCARY MOVIES (LOL SAM),VOLLEYBALL,TENNIS,KICKBOXING,FLIRTING,SWIMMING,BEING CRAZY AND LOTS OF OTHER STUFF!!! O AND I'M SWEETER THEN SUGAR!!!!!!

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ok so here it goes hopefully you can help me w/ this. last week me and my family went on vacation and when i left i had a girlfriend ( lets call her maddie) that i loved. but when i was there i met this amazing, wonderful girl ( we'll call her whitney). she was amazing and i really liked her and she liked me. anyways, i completely forgot about maddie so basically i cheated on her w/ whitney. and then i had to leave and go home and i was really sad and so was whitney because i wont be able to see her until my family goes on vacaction next year or unless one of my family members dies and i have to go up there to a funeral ( my whole family lives there). and it really sucks because i like her alot...more then i have ever liked anybody. now that i'm home and i dont know what to do...should i break up w/ maddie because it wont ever been the same or should i stay w/ maddie and just try and deal w/ it?....thanks in advance....o ya i'm 17/m if that helps.

If your with maddie and its just not the same a when your with whitney... then damn you dont even need to make a decision, youve already been told for whom you care for......u cant thank my friend john for that answer! hope i helped!

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hi kelsey my name is karen! i love your advice! ok well just recently i recieved my first kiss from my boyfriend! we have been going out for 4 monthes! my ? is what are some things i can do to make him want to kiss me more? please help!

lol...well i really dont no about this one b/c i'm having the same problem...well wat i think you should do is maybe drop hints and stuff..ive been doing that but i've had skool all week so i havent been able 2 b w/ my boyfriend all that much so i dont no if it worked... also i talked to my guy friend and he said that it helps if you cuddle and stuff alot..and go 2 the movies cuz it gives them an opening. hope i helped!

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um i know that you dont know me at all but i really like the advice you give and i wanted you to help me! first of all my name is kayln and i live in florida! ok well there is this girl and we use to be best friends but she started acting rude and mean to everyone and she gets all pissed over little things! ive tried talking to her and all she does is gets mad! she is alwayz yelling at me cuz i dont wanna hang with her friends( we have different friends)! i get so mad cuz i hate it when she sits there and acts all pissed at me! im so lost and confused please help me!what should i do?????????

well i would advise talking 2 her but since u've already tried that.......i would hang out with my differnet friends for a while and when she yells at u just tell her that she's changed and that you dont really like hang out with her when she acts like that...then if you still wanna be friends tell her that you would but not when she acts like that...if u dont wanna be friends just leave it at that. hope i help! :)

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okay, I just got a new sn AIM, I didnt redownload it or anything, just a new sn and for some reason on my buddy list on the left, it shows a column with links i can click on such as " Radio" " My photos" "greetings" "IM Robots" "Video IM" is there a way to get rid of this? because on my other buddly list it doesnt do this... if you want me to send you a picture of what it looks like just e-mail me on here andill give you my SN, thanks :) * I rate 5's*

when u got ur new sn..it automaticly downloaded the newest verison of aim....u cant get rid of it..at least i cant get rid of it on mine

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I really want to change my religion, I am a Roman Catholic I just don't believe in their thoughs and such. I am not sure what I want to be. Does any oen have any past experience? Is it like a legal thing if you want to change religions; like you have to get papers? Any help or comments or info about other religions would be greatly appreiciated!

i changed religons too. ya it's a legal thing and no you dont have to get papers....just make sure it's ok w/ ur parents and start going 2 the chruch of ur choice! hope i helped!

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hey babe, well first of all i have to say i love your advice column! ok well my bf wont make the first move at all and sometimes it bugs me like when we go to movies and stuff! what should i do?

lol good ?! i think u should make the 1st move or something...or i can talk 2 him!!! lol! hope it helps!!!

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Hi.. I dont really know where to start but first off i cut myself... and i do it beacasue my life is so hard.. Many of my family members have died and in January 5th my friend Joe died and he was really specail to me .. and so i took out the blade.. and i started cutting.. and i have lied about me cutting myslef but if i told my mom she would kill me ... most of the time her and i get along but some times we have issues and she yells at me sometimes and it gets me all fired up jus wanting to cry .. and then i have an older brother ((15)) and he hits me sometimes.. and he annoys the crap out of me and that fires me up 2 .. and then i have a little brother ((6)) and he does everyhting in his power to annoy me .. lik for instance hell make faces at me and make nasty commments about me lik how much he hates me and i cant take it anymore.. and so i bring out the siccors and i cut myself.. Now i go to this Christain Youth Center and we talk about god and isssues and just things that come to mind.. and the lady incharge i talk to her about me life and how i feel and i tell her that i cut myself and last week we all got into a discussion about anything we wnated to talk about and then someone starts to talk about Depression and then it gets deeper into cuttin yourself.. and im just sitting there thinkin .. y is she talkin about this ... and it hurts me bad to hear this women say that its stupid to do it and its not right to take it out on myslef.. and so im wondering if i can really talk to her about my life anymore.. but im askin if i should continue doin this if it makes me feel better (( maybe not inside)) but i cant talk to my mom 4 certain reasons so imaskin you people....
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get help. i have alot of friend who either cut themselves or have tryed. it doesnt work. it isnt your fault. talk to someone about it....a friend or something. i no this sounds totally cheezy and stuff but it really doesnt help to take it out on yourself. all of my friends who cut have regreted it.

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My parents got divorced and i'v been living with my mom, brother, and step-dad for over a year. I feel really bad for my dad because he lives alone and seems lonley. I think he should get a pet too bt he works and say`s he wouldn`t be able to take care of it and stuff. I think i want to live with my dad, but if i do i know my mom will cry and get alll upset.. :/ what should i do or say?! Plez help

i have the same problem. my parents got divorced at little over a year ago and i live with my mom. the best thing to do right now is to talk to your mom. she'll understand. and think about it....if your dad is too busy, he cant take care of you. so for right now, try and talk to both of your parent about it. maybe you can live with your dad for a month in the summer or something. i hope this helps!

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First of all thanks to everyone who helped answer my first question

my girlfriend is being a little cold to me lately and i'm not sure why. i mean she might be doing it just to tease me or because she's trying to break up with me. we also haven't talked in a while since we have both been so busy with school. i'm not sure what to think. i know that valentine's day is coming up so she might be doing it just for fun or she wants to make me dump her. i dunno what to think. Please Help!

Thanks!

Confused Boyfriend

i would ask her first of all. most girls dont joke around and do stuff like that but i dont know her so i could be wrong. it seems like you guys have some issues to work out and the best thing for that is to just talk.

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my friend steels stuff from stores, and it really bothers me. I'm afraid that if im with her when she does it ill get in trouble for it too. She trusspasses onto peoples property too. I dont think that she is a good friend for me, we get along really well and always have fun when we're together but i dont want to be her friend when she does that stuff. What should i do?

if it were me whos friend was doing that, i would confront her and talk to her. what she is doing isn't right and she should know that. if she doesnt stop, i think you should find other friend who dont do stuff like. i hope this helps!

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