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confused boyfriend
First of all thanks to everyone who helped answer my first question
my girlfriend is being a little cold to me lately and i'm not sure why. i mean she might be doing it just to tease me or because she's trying to break up with me. we also haven't talked in a while since we have both been so busy with school. i'm not sure what to think. i know that valentine's day is coming up so she might be doing it just for fun or she wants to make me dump her. i dunno what to think. Please Help!
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Confused Boyfriend
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don't dump her on valentines day! thats harsh! talk to her maybe she has a lot on her mind.
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valentines day is the perfect opportunity to figure out whats up with her. plan something special, to watch movies together, go out for pizza, whatever. see how she acts around you then. it might just be that she hasn't spent time with you latly, and shes reacting to it. if she still seems to be being cold, theres something going on. girls sometimes act on their feelings, and don't realize what theyre doing to their boyfriends. I've done it, and if this is the case, she really needs you to bring it up. tell her you've noticed shes been acting a little different lately, and you wanted to make sure everything was okay. if her answer makes it obvious that it has nothing to do with you, don't push it and continue to be there for her until shes ready to talk. if its obviously something having to do with your relationship, make sure she knows that you have to know about these things to, and you can't fix anything if you don't know what she feels is wrong.
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i would ask her first of all. most girls dont joke around and do stuff like that but i dont know her so i could be wrong. it seems like you guys have some issues to work out and the best thing for that is to just talk.
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hug him first lol..... that's the best thing to do..... or you can get those lil candy heart things and say let's play a game... then put them all in a bag and say let's do whichever one you pick....lol idk... anywhoo'z hope i helped ya =)
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I think shes trying to break up with you. But then again girls are really confusing so she might have something else up her sleeve.
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first, ask. If she tap dances around or something, then you may need to push the issue a little until you get a real answer. (Just for the record, "I don't know" and "you know what you did" are NOT real answers).
second, girls that do things like this to "play games" are not worth the time and trouble. Don't contimue to feed these "games" as they only lead to problems.
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I would talk to her...but make sure it is not you being too attached or forceful around her. When you get too close and for too long, chances are she'll get bored, so give her space. It's like the elastic rebound theory LOL (8th grade science!!) Anyway, hope I helped! xoxx
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Talk to her and be completely honest about how you feel, if she wants to break up with you she should tell you its only fair, but she could just need her space, give it a lil time. IHIH *Kaitlyn
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think positive! dont think that she'll break up with you because you dont want to be depressed about things, so in other words, she might be doing it because of vday. suprise her with something for valentines day or something. the best thing that i suggest for you to do, is when you both aren't busy, you go to her house/or the other way around, and talk about things that have been happening. just say whats on your mind and i'm suer that the truth with come out. xox
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well i would ask her what she wants for the relationship.if she wants to keep being a couple or just friends. if she wants to be a couple then take her out and have a blast. or maybe write her a note and ask her whats up.. hope i helped!
good luck!
x0x0 abbey x0x0
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