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my friend steels stuff from stores, and it really bothers me. I'm afraid that if im with her when she does it ill get in trouble for it too. She trusspasses onto peoples property too. I dont think that she is a good friend for me, we get along really well and always have fun when we're together but i dont want to be her friend when she does that stuff. What should i do?
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you should talk to your friend and ask her why she's stealing and trespassing through other people's property. if shes straight foward with you, then you should tell her how she can fix it. but if she does it just to be doing it, then you should tell her how you feel about it. if shes calm about the way you're trying to handle the situation, then she's a keeper. and if she snaps right away before you can put in your two cents, then shes a bad friend and you need to be searching for a new friend. hope i helped.
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If you know she is going to do this stuff when you're around just make and excuse to get out of it..and if you really don't think that she is a good long term friend for you...then hang out with her .... and don't let her bring you down with her.
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Well, you really have two choices. But before these choices, you need a realization. If you don't get yourself out of the situation, later on your going to be upset! So act now and cover your own butt! Your choices are...
1. Tell your friend how you feel. Tell her stealing stuff and trespassing isn't going to get her far. Tell her the more she does it, the harder it's going to be to stop, b/c it will become a habit. Tell her your telling her because you care and friends help eachother, their not supposed to go down together.
2. If all else fails, she wont listen, you need a new friend/friends. It may be hard but little by little you need to stop hanging out with her, or being really friendly. Of course you dont have to completely ignore her but I would keep a safe distance.
Well, I really hope I could be of help. Life is tough, especially in a situation such as this. Hope u get the advice u need. :-)
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if it were me whos friend was doing that, i would confront her and talk to her. what she is doing isn't right and she should know that. if she doesnt stop, i think you should find other friend who dont do stuff like. i hope this helps!
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Tell her how you feel about the stealing and tell her you will tell her parents if she dosent stop so just try your best to get her to stop im sorry i couldnt help more
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Well you shouldnt go with her when she does it!My friends use to do the same thing then i told them how I felt!
***Hope i helped**
xoxo Mandy
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You will get in trouble if she gets caught and she is with you if you know she is going to steal try and talk her out of it and if that fails tell her you'll wait outside of the store. You make perfect sense you just need to set your boundaries and talk to her about it! No matter how hard it might be-trix
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