Hey yall,
My name is Mandy im 13 and i live in Ohio. U can ask me anything!And i get back to you pretty quick! i really like helping people out with any type of problems!
xoxoxo Mandy
Gender: Female
Location: Ohio
Age: 13
AIM: Daydreambaby213
Member Since: February 6, 2005
Answers: 13
Last Update: March 28, 2005
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Ok...im 14 and i have been made fun of since 4th grade....everyday i get called gay and it just makes me feel terrible...and i dont know why they do it ...i make good grades and im a good person... i jsut would like to know what to do... (link)
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Is "gay" all they can call you? To me it seems like they are trying to be bulleys and arnt very good at it!You should try just ignoring them,then they will soon get the picture that you dont care and move on.but as long as they no its hurting you they are gonna keep doing it!
`~`Hope I Helped`~`
xo Mandy xo
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im looking for a dress for the end of the year dance, which is supposed to be some big thing. we arent supposed to like over do it.. like wear prom dresses and stuff, but we need to wear dresses and look nice. im going shopping to check them out tomorrow. any suggestions? (link)
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oooo you should go to Nordstroms
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I just got a electric guitar and I was wondering if there are any good sites out there to teach you how to play it?
Thanks,
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yea there are some good sites!i just got and eletric guitar and i use them to teach me!!!!!
there is this guy name Paul Gilbert he teaches online!
hope i helped
xoxo Mandy
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i have a b/f. But, we dont reali talk at all. I say hi to him in the hallway and he says hi back. Its a week before Valentines Day and how do i get him to AT LEAST give me a hug? Fast Replies please! (link)
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maybe u should run up to him and hug him! thats what i had to do and it turns out he was just nervous and scared that i didnt wanna.
**hope i helped**
xoxox mandy
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ok im trying to rearrange/redecorate my room and i have kind of like a lilac color on the wall with white trim and white doors. well i have this old furniture thats like old wood and i need to do something new with it that would match the lilac/white color scheme in my room. if you have ne ideas please help! im totally lost:( (link)
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Maybe you could paint it white and take a sponge and sponge it lilac (or the other way around)
Hope i helped yall
xoxoxo Mandy
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my friend steels stuff from stores, and it really bothers me. I'm afraid that if im with her when she does it ill get in trouble for it too. She trusspasses onto peoples property too. I dont think that she is a good friend for me, we get along really well and always have fun when we're together but i dont want to be her friend when she does that stuff. What should i do? (link)
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Well you shouldnt go with her when she does it!My friends use to do the same thing then i told them how I felt!
***Hope i helped**
xoxo Mandy
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13-M----OK my problem is that im not gonna have
n e 1 for valentines day! this may not seem so big to everyone else but my new years resolution was to get a real g/f by then. Im not extremly unpopular, its just everyone thinks im wierd. so someone halp me find a resolution for this! (link)
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Why does it matter if she is popular if you like someone go for it! she may like you.And if she turns you down at least you tried and you dont have guilt for not!!
**Hope I helped**
-Mandy**
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i've kind of been seeing this guy and hes 3 years older then me but we havent really been seeing each other because he has other girls in his profile saying he can't live without them and so on.. and that he loves them and we arent going out.we just kind of hook up a lot. but i really like him and he says he has feelings for me too. and im a virgin and he says he is too. and he doesnt want to be. im 13 and hes 16. i really dont want to lose mine but i sort of do when im with him. but he wants to be my "first" and i dont know if im too young but i feel like im ready. if you do it once do you get addicted like drugs and end up doing it a lot? or can you just do it once and wait a while to do it again? i'm really nervous because hes serious. because i really care about him and i know he cares about me too. should i? plz answer i rate! (link)
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I think maybe you should just wait a little longger.He may just want you for the sex, and he may even be lieing to you.It may not be the first time.Who knows!
**Hope I helped**
-Mandy***
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Omg..what do I do when I want to get my nose pierced and my parents aren't open up to it? Like..it's my dad I'm mostly worried about. He doesn't get it. He's just like "No..it looks ugly I dont want you to do that." But does he NOT understand that at any time I want I can take it out? It may leave a tiny mark but nothing major because my sister has had it done before and she hasn't like worn it in a year or more..and theres no mark unless you look really closely (which isnt bad at all)...
I mean Im gonna be 15 in March and I dont want it for my birthday..but like say if I wanted it for this coming christmas -- how can I maybe get them to consider it?? It's really hard though I'm warning you...
I was talking to my dad today and was like "So..what? you're not even gonna TRY to consider it as something I can do?" and he's like "as far as Im concerned its a no." and so Im like "THEN WHEN WILL YOU CONSIDER IT and really think about it??" and hes like "not now..I dont know."
But hes not gonna let me get it -- bottom line. I am not a spoiled person..and I am not a bad kid at all. I dont smoke anything, I dont do drugs or drink...the most I do is have an attitude or anger problems around the house and Im trying to work on that but I cant when they piss me off and my sister acts like another MOTHER to me (which I dont need right now)...
Should I make a list of what it WON'T do? Like what I mean is -- should I write down on a piece of paper stuff like "1. it wont be permanant...2. I can take it out anytime."...etc.
...and like.. just say all the bright sides about it? Because I really would make a list..I want it that bad and I dont want to wait until I move out because I dont want to get it when I'm older. I want peopel I knwo rto get used to me having it NOW before I get older..ya know?
I'm not doing it to fit in with anybody either..or just to be different than anyone else. I'm simply considering doing it because I want to be different then what I am now. I mean it's not like I'm getting a tattoo where it will be permanant..and it's not like people will point and LAUGH at me..I mean Im not gonna be the only one in the world with it done and if I ghave my ears pieced from liek when I was 7 then I dont understand why I cant have my nose pierced..even when Im 16
I told my dad "well 16 year olds can buy cars and pay bills for those cars but YOU wont let me get a nose piercing?" That kind of made him think..but he still said no.
But anyways..sorry for the longness of this question but if anyoen has been in teh same situation then please help. I really want this. I'd be so happy. =)
Thank You.
-me
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well whats the real reason you want your nose pierced? Maybe your dads right you should wait awhile whats the rush u still have your whold life ahead of ya!
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yea so i love my brother to death but he is always at work or his fiance's house and i barely ever see him. i alwyas get ticked off at my parents and flip out and i always ruin things in the house when hes not home he really is the only person that knows how to help me calm down. now im like a mess lately because hes getting married and he will probably be moving out and i dont want him to but anyways what can i do to make the pain of losing my brother be gone and how can i stop myself from like trashing the house when i get pissed off at my parents? please help. (link)
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You should just think about how happy your brother is and look at the bright side of things.
*Hope i helped*
-**Mandy**
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Okay i'm a 17 year old girl and i have alot of friends...half of my friends are guys, but they only see me as the "friend" and not as girlfriends type material. Now I want to meet new guys but i wouldn't know where to meet them. I mean i work and all but the guys who come into my work are too old. Another problem is, is that i'm really shy and i don't know how to talk to people very well. I can't talk to people that well if i don't know them but i can't get to know them until i talk to them. Wut do i do? (link)
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Well you should just maybe hit the malls or talk in chat rooms get to know someone.or even Just try to talk to ur friends see if they know someone!
I hope i helped
xoxox -Mandy
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ok... i have this friend and this year we've been getting into soo many fights... we just had one like 2 days ago but we got ova it... then when i went to her house with a bunch of other people last night... she was acting all mad so i wasn't talking to her a lot and then she just left us alone in her house and went in her room and like her whole house was pitch black and we didn't know where the light switch was... then today she was like i am mad at you because you barely talked to me yesterday and i was like thats because you looked all mad... and i mean not a lot of people were talking to her in the first place and i am the only one who is getting the blame... and me and my friend have this inside joke that we are lovers (its a joke not for real) and she is like thats gross and i was like i don't care what you think me and anna think its funny... and i don't know if i should still be friends with her because this is like the 50th fight we've been in and yea... help pleaz... sry this is long... i'll rate 5's for everyone who answers thanks (link)
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well, how long have you been friends?? i mean me and my friend used to get into fights a lot to and then we decided to tell each other our feelings all the time.(like when we are mad or sumthin) and it worked.
Hoped i helped
-xoxo Mandy
Ps. IF ya wanna talk my sn is Daydreambaby213
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I'm in love with my best guy friend at school. I think he likes me cuz we talk a lot on aim. And the guy who sits next to him in math (thats our only period together) said out loud, "you like her, you know you do." We caught eyes and he looked away. I hope he was talking about me. One of my friends was bugging us two that we liked each other and fight like an old married couple. Is this fate, or just a crush? I'll rate high for good answers. (link)
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well im in the same situation right now and i already was in it before too!
I think that maybe if you talk to him and ask him if he likes you it will help you a lot!
Hope I helped!
xoxoxo-Mandi
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