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jealousy?
ok, whenever my best friend hangs out with someone else, i tend to get really angry at her, i mean i love her to death, but, i dunno, i just get mad. I know that your can have more than one friend and all, but since like a few years back, its only been me and her hanging out, very rarely has it been with other people. I love her to death and i dont want things like this to change us!! How do i make this stop? please help!!
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You can't make it stop-she will make new friends.
You will make the friendship even more tense if you get mad at her for hanging out with someone else.
Just let her do other stuff, and she'll realize you're a very good friend to her if she's ever let down, and she can always come back to you. Keep in touch, but don't be overprotective or concerned about your friendship, or you will break it by weighing it down with stress.
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its probably not jealously. its concern. it happens to a lot of guys--even girls. its normal. i guess you're so use to hanging out with her by yourself that it just gets to you when she's hanging out with somebody other than you, and especially if it's another guy. so just talk to her and tell her you're feeling left out. because if you tell her that you just dont like her hanging out with other guys, she might not want to hang around you again.
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I'm sorry but you cant make is stop. people always get new friends, i just got off the phone with one of my friends and we were talking about that, friends become enemies...people during teenage yrs change at one time or another and find new people. it doesnt mean that ur gonna stop being friends, she just needs something new. its totally understandable. you can find a few new friends too, its fun meeting new people =)
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Dude, it's OK. You need to start hanging around with other people more. You should have a best friend, but you need a couple of good friends to hang around with too. I mean, what if your best friend moves to like, Canada?
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wow, i def just went through the same issue just like a month ago. i know it might be hard to adjust to but friendships change overtime. not nessicarily bad but not good either. when friends hang out too long they usually find different interest or different friends and need space. you might as well respect that shes getting new friends. if you continue to be jealous, she'll dislike hanging out with you even more and soon enough your friendship will go down the drain. dont try to push anything, just let everything flow natrually. she might be ur bestfriend still but try to find other friends as well..
my advice helped me.
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