Question Posted Wednesday February 23 2005, 8:57 pm
14/f , today me and my boyfriend madeout for the first time today. it was his first time ever to makeout, but not mine at all. the problem is- he wasnt that great at it, and i didnt really know what to do :x I know its not that big of a deal but its kinda of a turn off.. what do you sugest i do? thanks :)
Teza answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 11:10 pm: well its his first time .. think how ur first time was.. keep making out until he gets better x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
ADViCE4YOUx3 answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 10:26 pm: Well it is his first time. What was it like on your first time? If you do it again, he will probably get better. Practice makes perfect lol. Like when you first start something are you like great at it he prob. just needs some practice. Hope my advice helped =) please rate this advice thanks xxo0x [ ADViCE4YOUx3's advice column | Ask ADViCE4YOUx3 A Question ]
icey0990 answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 10:23 pm: Its his first time.. i would keep making out with him because as you do it more..he will get better! After awhile if you dont see improvement..maybe say..hey try this with me..and instruct him what to do. (example if hes too sloppy tell him to sit still while you kiss him) maybe then he will catch on. But give him some more time to practice and maybe he'll get the hang of it on his own [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
S_C answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 9:34 pm: It was his first time, give him a break haha. If it really was his first time, then he probably had no idea what he was doing. Just like I bet your first time you were scared, or nervous, or confused, most likely that's how he was feeling. For the next few times ya'll make out, you lead. Make sure you let him know whatever he's doing wrong, you don't want him to keep making the same mistakes (though how many can you make through kissing?) If he doesn't get any better, then try finding other ways. If he's your boyfriend I doubt you're just dating to kiss, find other things that are fun that ya'll can safely do together. USE PROTECTION for anything that should be protected ;-)!! Good luck! [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
Karen answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 9:25 pm: If this was his first time ever making out with a girl, then he will get used to making out and he will get better, since he didn't know what to expect. Try making out with him more, since practicing makes things better. He will get better and it will just take time.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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