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Q: I just got a electric guitar and I was wondering if there are any good sites out there to teach you how to play it?

Thanks,
this is a fun website with cool guitar lessons, it's all in tab though.

http://www.wholenote.com

Q: Okay well Im going out with this kid Lucas... he is a year younger then me... Im 13 hes 12... I have never made out with anyone... & I am really ashamed of that kinda... idk... so yea weve been goin out for 3 weeks today... and hes on my bus n all my friends are stupid n they are always tryin to get us to make out n stuff... n I just feel like weird especially on the bus where everyone can see us... I dont know if he has ever made out with anyone... I think he has because his last g/f he went out wit he was with for almost a year... also in the back of my mind I keep thinking that he doesnt really like me and i cant help but be paranoid... n Ive been ignoring sitting with him on the bus n stuff just to avoid kissing n stuff... idk..

So I guess im just asking for advice on what to do about kissing and how to stop being so paranoid! any help you can give would be great!!

thanx so much!
Don't be pressured into making out with him unless you're totally and completely ready and comfortable with it. Just ignore your friends. Don't be ashamed that you haven't made out with anyone yet, either. You're only 13, you have plenty of time for your chance to come.

Q: Does anyone out there no html...can you im me and tell me how to direct link...or im me and help me fix my buddyprofile..or just give me good sites..to tutor me on it...FAST!!!

--sn: Cheerchika123
I know HTML, but do NOT direct link unless the site allows you to! Direct linking, to my knowledge, is illegal.

Good html sites include
www.funky-chickens.com , sometimes this site is down though

and

www.lissaexplains.com

there are also many websites that have cool effects to add to websites such as
www.dynamicdrive.com
and
www.htmlbasix.com


Q: About a month or so ago, i saw this show degrassi. There was a girl named elli and she cut herself. Ever since i saw that one episode my life has been gettin worse and worse. My bf dumped me for another girl. My best friends dont ever want to do anything with me, and the guy that has liked me for 3 years hates me now. and well...i started to cut. It really relieve my pain and helps me get things out. But recently my friend say my arms and legs in gym and shes going to tell a counciler. i mean, i dont want her to!! i know its gotten really far..and its really hard to stop i've tried everythign! i've tried hiding my scissors and puttin a rubber band on my wrist NOTHING works!! I NEED HELP! what should i do? if my parents find out they might send me to a mental hospital!!

-hurt and scared
I know you think cutting is the only way to feel better, but it's not. it's only an illusion. I cut a few times and the first times it felt so good because I felt like I deserved it and I hated myself. But in the long run it made me feel worse about myself. I was afraid of what would happen if someone found out, what people would think of me, and all things like that. You should try talking to a consuller or a therapist, I know that may sound scary but it WILL help. I hated to open up to people but once I found the right person to talk to everything just spilled out. Cutting is not the only solution.

Q: this one guy (my ex) got really annoying after we broke up and he broke up with me but he wont leave me alone. he is so annoying he tells me that he hates me all the time, he has even punched me many times and he doesnt get in trouble for it. my parents know that he is bothering me, but they dont know how much. there are so many problems in my life right now i just wanna cry some plz help me
You certainly do not deserved to be pushed around and hit by this guy. You need to tell someone if he is becoming violent with you. If telling him to leave you alone doesn't work try telling your parents or a consuller at school. They might be able to help a lot. Just tell someone before it gets worse!

Q: There's this dancing game DDR and its like the funnest game ever but its $60 for the pad and the game. I really want it but i dont know if i should get it. Someone Please help!!!!
I would get it, it's a lot of fun and it's good exercise. My sister got one for christmas and we loved it so much we ended up getting another one to do versus and doubles. It's an addicting game, i think it's worth the $60! :).

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