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Okay well Im going out with this kid Lucas... he is a year younger then me... Im 13 hes 12... I have never made out with anyone... & I am really ashamed of that kinda... idk... so yea weve been goin out for 3 weeks today... and hes on my bus n all my friends are stupid n they are always tryin to get us to make out n stuff... n I just feel like weird especially on the bus where everyone can see us... I dont know if he has ever made out with anyone... I think he has because his last g/f he went out wit he was with for almost a year... also in the back of my mind I keep thinking that he doesnt really like me and i cant help but be paranoid... n Ive been ignoring sitting with him on the bus n stuff just to avoid kissing n stuff... idk..
So I guess im just asking for advice on what to do about kissing and how to stop being so paranoid! any help you can give would be great!!
thanx so much!
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You're right- your friends are stupid.
Kissing just because other people are telling you to is NOT the right reason to kiss someone- especially someone you care about, and even more so someone you don't care about. Which is why I never got games like Spin the Bottle and 7 minutes in Heaven.
So tell your friends to shut up and leave you alone.
Talk to Lucas- he needs to know that you're not ignoring him because you don't like him, but because your friends are making you feel uncomfortable and stuff.
Maybe you and Lucas can come up with a plan to completely freak out your friends- play a practical joke of sorts on them or something. I don't have any really brilliant suggestions for you, but perhaps you can think of something. For example, next time a friend bugs you to kiss Lucas, turn and kiss them instead (not necessarily on the lips- you'd probably shock them even with a cheek kiss).
When you do kiss Lucas, or any other boy, it should be because YOU want to, and it should (ideally) be special.
Also- don't be ashamed at never having made out at age 13. I was still "never been kissed" at age 18. (this has since changed, and making out is one of my favorite things to do in private with my bf, but still something I do not do in public!)
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DONT BE PARANOID...trust me if he didnt like yu he wouldnt be wth you! think about that..and as for the kissing..it can wait..be calm and be urselllff! xox Ari..-HOPE I HELPED!
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WEll, first off, I think you should find out if you want to kiss him or not. If you do, then you should just relax and try to be confident. I dont think avoiding the problem helps. If you dont want to then just tell your friends the next time they're like "Kiss him!" that you dont want to.
Good Luck!
-Rachel
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okay dont make out with anyone unless yoo REELY like them!! so if yoo are having doubts about this guy maybe yoo shud lay off him for a while.. yet if yoo REELY like him and still wanna go out but not makeout, just talk to him about it and spend sometime ALONE with him.. maybe itll be time for yoor first makeout, yoo never kno!
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You're too young to be going out. Your friends are immature. Why are you worried bout not making out yet? Your probably just now 13 or recently turned 13. Dont owrry about it much. You're paranoid. Also your boyfriend has a funny name. Lucas rhymes with mucus. Hahahahahahaha!- speaking of immature.
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well first of all don't worry about what everyone says and just wait for the right time. also as for him not liking you, you just need to start to trust him and believe that he is good at heart.
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well if you dont feel like kissing him then dont! wait intil you 2 are alone if you want, im 14 and my first kiss was on a bus and i kind of regret it! the guy was hott and everything just not the best place i guess diffently for a first kiss! make it perfect placing and make sure you really have feelings for this guy becuase your first kiss is the kiss you will always remember! its okay bein 13 and never kissed before! when you go to kiss for the first time you will know how to believe it or not you just go with the flow you might think its going to be hard and you will mess up but you wont! just dont think to hard about it alrighty! good luck! -kay rate me plz!
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Don't be pressured into making out with him unless you're totally and completely ready and comfortable with it. Just ignore your friends. Don't be ashamed that you haven't made out with anyone yet, either. You're only 13, you have plenty of time for your chance to come.
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if your really scared dont do it but if you are gonna not on a bus it would move up and down and he'd think you were the worst kisser ever lol go to a movie theatre and for practices make out with a friend hope i helped
-Kaylor
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Ingore your friends and you should just follow your heart and your time to make out with him will come
x0x morgan
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heyy my name is alex... i know what your going through because when i was going out with this kid danny i was scared to make out with him to and all my friends kept telling me to and i was just like guys.. please stop i will make out with him when im ready and he said that he wanted to wait for the right time until i was ready to so one day he came over my house.. and we were hanging and everything and all of a sudden it just happened like he kissed me and i kissed him back ( ovbesily ) sorry if i spelt it wrong.. but i was just like wow it actually happened and i was glad that i waited because that kind of stuff just happenes and you have to make sure you mean it though with the one you are kissing... i think... by the way im 13 and my ex boyfriend (danny) is turning 15
well i hope i helped you out.. good luck!!! :o)
Alex *
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Don't listen to what everyone else says. When your time comes with Lucas then you will make out with him. Ignore everyone else. DO what your heart tells you.
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