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I'm 13 and I'd like to know, how much makeup is too much? On a usual day, I wear eyeliner on the bottom lid, and an opaque, frosty lilac lip gloss. Is this ok? I don't want to look like a clown (link)
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Thats not too much make-up at all! I'm 14 and i usually wear eyeliner, mascara, eyeshadow, and a light pink blush. It sounds like a lot but i use light browns to make it look more natural because i have really light hair and a light skin complexion. If you have light skin don't wear a lot of dark colors. Wear more neutral colors. Then you won't look like a clown. Hope I helped. :) XoKissesoX
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I am 146 lbs. and am only five feet tall. I recently started a new diet and joined a gym. My boyfriend has been VERY supportive of me through this. I recently said something(dont remember though) that brought up a conversation and he said "I dont think you're fat..you're just big boned" ..and i got soooo mad...then he said he was just kidding. Should i be hurt by this?? (link)
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I don't think he meant it the way it sounded. If you were hurt by it then just tell him to stop joking aroudn with you about it.
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Ok well see I am a 13/f and my dad like hits me all the time with like eather a wooden stick or his hands or whatever he has in reach and it usually leaves bruises.....and like he always tells me when he does it that I could never call the police and get him in trouble because he will just say that it's his way of "punishing me". And like I always ask him why doesnt he just ground me or something else and he always says that he thinks this will work better.....but I really don't think it does. What should I doo?? Is this considered abuse or not??
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Yes, I'm sorry to say this is considered abuse. Try talking to your mom, guidance counseler, teacher, friend's parent, anyone and make them aware of the situation and ask them for advice. Make sure your dad doesn't know! Act fast! Don't let him keep doing this to you!
Good luck!
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my parents' anniversary is coming up and they keep reminding me because im the oldest of 3 so they want me to do something for them or buy them something.. i hav no idea wat to get or do..and im limited in money..any ideas?? (link)
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You could get a bunch of pictures of ur parents together and make a huge scrapbook and decorate it and stuff. it wouldn't cost that much and it would mean a lot to them because you took the time to make it for them.
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Ok I want to get my hair like kristen's on laguna beach..like how its styled..but what should I tell the person that does my hair?? Like not everyone watches laguna beach and im not gonna just be like yea i want it like kristen's..so what should i tell them?
thanks so much
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bring in a good picture of her and show your hair stylist and he/she should be able to figure it out.
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ok...there's this guy that i might hook up with but i'm still not sure that i will but he was asking me if we hooked up if i would ever have sex with him and i said i didnt know...i dont know what to do because i dont think im ready for sex yet and honestly im scared...i want to tell him that im not ready but i dont know how he will react.. (link)
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You need to do what your gut tells you. If you think that you are not ready for sex then tell him that and if he pressures you or calls you names then he isn't the right guy for you. You need to find a guy that is willing to wait for when you are ready.
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I swear I'm not trying to brag, I'm 13 and only like 70 pounds, I sit in front of my computer all day, I eat a bunch of crap food, I go to McDonalds all the time, but you can still see my spine through the front. How can I gain weight? I rate high usually, but smartass answers will just result in me asking "Why do you suck so much?" as one of those personal questions. (link)
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There are these cereal bar type things that you can eat and they are supposed to help you gain weight. try going to a health food store and ask someone at the front counter about them.
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OK, my hair is just about shoulder length, maybe a little bit longer. It's thick and reallyyyyy wavy and frizzy. If i straighten it at night, like right before i go to bed, shood i keep it up or down overnight? Which will help it stay straight? (link)
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When you go to bed keep it down but before you go to bed you might want to put some frizz control in your hair like John freida or some other brand, check at your local drug store.
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okay so basically my mom is having a hissy fit because well i switched shifts with this one girl and now im opening (working 8-12) and shes all pissed off @ me because she "doesnt wanna wake up that early." and shes saying that all i do is think of myself... wow was i really thinking of myself because i thought i switched shifts with someone else to help THEM out .. ANYWAY - and i told her about one of my close friends parties on Sunday and she was thinking about it. UNTIL she realized that my brother is having his girlfriend eat dinner over for her birthday.. So what am i supposed to do?! the party is 7-11 and shes eating over at 8:30. (link)
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Well if you really wanted to go to the party you could go for an hour and a half and then go home and eat dinner with your brother's g/f.
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i was wondering if you should shave above your knee's and if you do will it turn all gross like when you shave below your knee?
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Yes you can shave up above your knee, it will not turn all gross, however if you do begin to shave up there then like below your knee your going to have to shave there all the time.
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hey guys i was just wondering were i havent got nothing to do this summer i was wondering what good books i could read this summer like books you could get at a public library. Thanks for your help i really need something to do other than sit at the computer desk all summer!
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I like the sisterhood of the traceling pants. Those were really good books. They are coming out with the movie too. I also enjoyed the Princess Diaries Series. Hope I helped.
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hey i was thinkin of after my shower putting gel in my wet hair and scrunching it. do i need to blow dry my hair as/after i do this? can i just let it air dry? thanks (link)
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Yes you can let it air dry but make sure you put quite a bit of gel and/or hairspray in to make the scrunches stay.
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ok so i weigh about 126... and i need to weigh 105 before a start to wear my swimming suit!!!!!!! please help me and dont say i dont need to loose weight because you dont know that. how do you loose 21 pounds in like 3weeks???? do i just not eat?! (link)
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No not eating is NEVER the answer. Pace yourself. Eat smaller portions and try to cut down n the extra snacking. Eat healthier foods and try not to eata lot of sugar or foods with a lot of calories. You may not be able to lose the weight in 3 weeks but don't get discouraged and don't give up. Try exercises too. Maybe go to the gym.
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ohk well im 13 and colombian (spic) woot woot yeah i know lol. anyways my mom and my dad asked me what i want to have a sweet 15 or a sweet 16.. its kinda early but they wanna start saving up since they wanna have my party at the hilton ... but the thing is that most if my friends that im going to invite are white or black and like 6 are spanish ... and i think that they will enjoy a sweet 16 better , but i mean its a tradition for a spanish girl to have a sweet 15 ? im confused help me out (link)
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I think you should do whatever you feel is best for you. Not for your friends. If you want to have a sweet 15 then have that, if you want to have a sweet 16 than thats ok too.
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O.K., Im thinking about downloading AIM onto my computer, but Im afraid it will give me a virus. If I get a virus my parents will KILL me! Does anyone have it and can tell me whether its ever given you a virus or someone you know? Thanks! All my friends have it and they've never gotten viruses before, but I need to make sure. THANKS! (link)
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I have had AIM on two different computers for the past 3 or 4 years and I have never gotton a virus.
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Ive got a really bad obsession with the drink coca cola! and its not good for you to drink it everday of the week. Anyone give me advice on how to stop drinking so much coke?!?
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My suggestion would be to find another drink that you like just as much as coca cola. That way you won't even think about having coca cola. Remember, it's ok to have coca cola once in a while, but not every day.
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female,16....Hi im elena and i was woundering, My friend and i were in the park one day and we ended up making out.. The next day at school he didn't talk to me or even look at me.. He told his cousin that he liked me and he liked what happend but he wont talk to me. IS there something wrong or am i just freeking out? (link)
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It's hard to tell but from what it sounds like he might be avoiding you because he doesn't know how you feel. He probably didn't know if you thought that it shouldn;t have happened. I suggest the two of you sit down and talk about what happened. Say how you feel and then take things from there. best of luck!
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My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and I just had my period. I usually have it for 4 or 5 days but I only had it for 3 this time. The first two days it was very heavy. I had to change my tampon (regular absorbancy) every hour. Thats a lot for me but still it was only heavy like that for 2 days .. Im really nervous. I just want to know if u guys think I could be pregnant. I dont feel any different at all.. no stomach aches or dizzieness. Please help.. I rate high! (link)
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You should not mess around with this type of situation. you need to get a pregnancy test to find out. Best of luck
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i have formal in ONE month..i need to loosed 10 pounds.. im 14/f .. i work out daily.. but NOTHING seems to be working.i need something simple that would help me loose it on a normal everyday life.. should i eat less carbs or something? how much a day should i consume? what should i eat for breakfest/lunch/dinner ?
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I heard somewhere that you need to eat less carbs then you burn. if you eat more carbs then you burn then they will turn into fat and just stay there because your body can't burn off the calories.
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I have a bad attitude about school and i cant change it. I have alot of missing math assingmets, i don want to do them: they are super hard. I hate school, I would rather laze around all day... (link)
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Ask for extra help from your teacher or get a tutor. Ask your teacher if you could stay after school with them to try your homework and if you don't get something they will be there to help you. If you make the attempt so will they.
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