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mean..or no?
I am 146 lbs. and am only five feet tall. I recently started a new diet and joined a gym. My boyfriend has been VERY supportive of me through this. I recently said something(dont remember though) that brought up a conversation and he said "I dont think you're fat..you're just big boned" ..and i got soooo mad...then he said he was just kidding. Should i be hurt by this??
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it sounds like your boyfriend is trying to tell you that he loves you just the way you are but he can't find the right words to say it in. guys don't always know how to tell a girl things like that so when he says stuff like that he means it in a good way. when he sees that it upsets you, he says he is just kidding so you won't be hurt. i hope i helped! <3 and good luck!
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No if it was just a joke you shouldn't be affended then.
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no, you shouldn't be hurt... i dunno how to explain it but i really don't think he meant anything wrong by it. take it however you want but i don't think it was wrong. <3
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Why should you be mad? For the first part he said he was just joking around. And for the second part you should be proud you got a big ass. Thats just my opinion.
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no, you should be happy you have a guy who likes you the way you are and is supportive of you.
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well you have every right to be hurt after all those are your feelings. After all im sure he didnt meen it like that.The next time he dose it just tell him how uncomfortable it makes you feel considering your trying to lose the weight and im sure if hes supporting you now he will back off with the jokes.
P.s Good luck with losing wight im sure you will look great and feel better when you get to your targe weight
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I don't think he meant it the way it sounded. If you were hurt by it then just tell him to stop joking aroudn with you about it.
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To be honest, I don't think he meant it in a mean way. If he's been supportive of you through it, that shows that he probably cares for you a lot, more than you know. It was probably just a joke which he didn't know would hurt you. Hope I helped.<3 DCG
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Okay the joke about not being fat just big boned is from South Park.... dont be offended he probably just heard it on there... and the other one guys like big butts. that almost like a compliment!!!!!
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No You shouldnt be hurt.. it seems that your bf cares for you alot and is supportive..And if he tells you nicer things .. hes only trying to get you to feel good about yourself..Big boned isnt a bad thing and anyways he was prolly just jokin.. and the big ass thing .. all guys love a big ass so dont be hurt by that.. and hey he loves it .. so why should it matter..* you shouldnt change yourself .. you are who you are and he loves you for that*
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No, it's obvious your boyfriend loves you how you are, but is very supportive if you want to change. It's nothing to be hurt by. I'm sure he didn't mean it in a mean way.
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Hurt is a feeling, I can't tell you what you should feel.
However, it was just a tasteless joke. Guys make 'em all the time, especially teenage guys. Unless it becomes a bad habit it's not worth getting your panties in knot about.
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