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Okay well Im going out with this kid Lucas... he is a year younger then me... Im 13 hes 12... I have never made out with anyone... & I am really ashamed of that kinda... idk... so yea weve been goin out for 3 weeks today... and hes on my bus n all my friends are stupid n they are always tryin to get us to make out n stuff... n I just feel like weird especially on the bus where everyone can see us... I dont know if he has ever made out with anyone... I think he has because his last g/f he went out wit he was with for almost a year... also in the back of my mind I keep thinking that he doesnt really like me and i cant help but be paranoid... n Ive been ignoring sitting with him on the bus n stuff just to avoid kissing n stuff... idk..

So I guess im just asking for advice on what to do about kissing and how to stop being so paranoid! any help you can give would be great!!

thanx so much!

heyy my name is alex... i know what your going through because when i was going out with this kid danny i was scared to make out with him to and all my friends kept telling me to and i was just like guys.. please stop i will make out with him when im ready and he said that he wanted to wait for the right time until i was ready to so one day he came over my house.. and we were hanging and everything and all of a sudden it just happened like he kissed me and i kissed him back ( ovbesily ) sorry if i spelt it wrong.. but i was just like wow it actually happened and i was glad that i waited because that kind of stuff just happenes and you have to make sure you mean it though with the one you are kissing... i think... by the way im 13 and my ex boyfriend (danny) is turning 15

well i hope i helped you out.. good luck!!! :o)

Alex *

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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship.

heyy this is alex... well my boyfriend and I just broke up awhile ago and he thought about it.. but he was... more into me than he was into wanting sex.. but.. im not trying to be rude or anything so dont take this the wrong way please.. but I think guys talk or think about it for attention and that stuff.. and im happy for you and your girlfriend I hope your relationship works out really good.. but.. I'm sorry it drives you mental because it annoys me to but I seriously don't think they always think of it I think they do it for attention..

I hoped I helped you good luck with you girlfriend I wish you the best!!! :o)

Alex**

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I want to stop biting my nails but I don't know how to. I've tried before and it never seems to work out. My mom tells me to sit on my hands but that doesn't work. I've tried chewing gum and yet I still bite them and my nails are too short to paint. I've even got my nails done before and when I take the fake nails off and my real ones are long they just break off. Any suggestions?

hey my name is alex.. well.. I don't know if I would be an great help.. but.. maybe you are nervous about something so maybe you should hang out with some of your friends.. and do like a dance or something because I use to have the same problem until I started dancing now I don't do it anymore..

hope I helped you..

Alex **

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