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Why just why!!!!
Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship.
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All guys do want sex and if they dont then they get it ne ways!
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dude i totally understand what you are saying.. because my friends that are girls they always say that all us guys want is sex.. and usually its true.. but they need to know that all guys arent the same.. and the only way they will understand that is to show them that your not looking for sex.. because i did and now im the most trustworthy guy they know.. so show those girls that they are wrong about what they think about guys
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alright let me break it down for you...just like in r kelly's song this has the same meaning...one man can make a woman hate all men(or not trust all men)...it really sucks but thats how shit goes...that doesnt mean that you cant change it though...if you really want a real relationship after you find mrs.right all you gotta do is prove to her that sex is not all you want...you might be wondering how to prove it to her but really all you gotta do is be yourself and eventually she'll trust you if your really commited to making it work...and since im a female if i were you i would take my advice cause believe me i know best...hope i helped
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Well im afraid all thoes dick heads in the world have given all you guys a bad reputation for using girls for sex.
But we all know there are some genually nice guys out there too, you just have to prove that you are, be romantic and when you do go out with a girl take it really slow and DONT tell any one about your sexlife - if you talk about it it counts as bragging!!! nicki xxxx
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Most guys dont mature until they are older, and you probably know that -- Well most guys are just horn dogs and want sex, so girls assume all the time -- Some girls are into it and some girls arent -- Alot of girls go looking for "Mr. Right" who they think wants a relationship and BLAH BLAH..its just kind of a thing in girls heads..happenes, trust levels go down as girls date guys so they set higher standards..thats just the way ti works..not easy but if yu can get a girl to see that you REALLY want a relationship then youll be ok
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well...from a lot of the guys ive been with...all they do want is sex..or a blow job or hand job....if thats not what you want...then you gotta prove to girls that you dont...
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I understand what you mean, but at my school that is the main talk of gossip. I have heard things I will not speak of and have known people who would do anything for someone they "love", but it is no good. I cannot tell you why, but I guess they just get it from the crowd they hang out with. I do not like crowds, nor labels, but I do know that there are alot of guys out there like that.
Only from me,
The God Penguin (I am a girl!)
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well.. most straight guys do.
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Cause most guys really do only want sex and every girl who has been with more than one guy prolly has atleast once been with a guy who only wanted sex...
hope i helped
<3 Kermie
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You shouldn't get mad crazy over that, it is a known fact that MOST guys just want sex, and yes, there are guys who just want a relationship and want to be in love, but there are only so many of those you find out there. And they think it because its true, guys hormones are just more sexual wanting, and there are girls like this too, but most have matured before guys have, and you should try ignoring them, don't kill them or stab them, its really no big deal and someday you'll prove a girl wrong that it isn't every guy.
-TheTeenGirl
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It depends on the people. Some guys actually do use girls for sex but doesnt mean the men that dont should be judged the same as others everyone is different and want different things out of relationships and life. Hope that helps.
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because ALOT of guys SAY they want a relationship but use a girl for sex.It's true. Its happened to me soooo many times and after awhile you kindof get used to it and imagine most guys this way. yeah some arnt, possibly you, but many of them are and a girl cant be to careful, because would you like it if a girl just wanted your money? it really sucks.
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It's all stereotypes: "all guys want is sex" "girls think all that guys want is sex"
So basically, when you meet the right girl, she'll be smart enough to see that you want more out of her than sex.
You can make this happen through your actions: SHOW her that you think of her as a person, not just a piece of ass.
Guys who respect girls gain respect in return.
It's really not that complicated- if you're a nice guy, then nice girls will notice and appreciate you for who you are.
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well saying that all guys just want to get laid is a stereo-type (hehe sp)But the truth is that most guys when they're teenagers only care about sex, they dont really think about finding their "soulmates" or anything as much as girls do. Anyways hope i answred our question and if i didnt leave me a msg. in my INBOX =) xox Ari
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good for you. Do you want to know why most women think men want sex. It is bbecause MOST men want sex. But not all of them. You, and a rare few guys out there, want a relashinship. Sex is not the most important thing to you, and that's great. I understand why it would drive you mental ... just whenever someone says something like that to you again, just tell them that your not like that, and are actually looking for love, and if they know you well enough, and trust you, they'll believe you. Dont stand up for all men, because your standing up for a large population of players and sex a holics.
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Well, that's good for you. But most girls think that because they grew up thinking that. And they also probably had bad encounters with guys before, which makes them assume things. Besta Luck
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Well i think the reason behind your madness deals with generalizations. Everyone makes generalizations-example "all guys want sex". And while this isn't true of every guy out there a lot of guys do want just sex. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that-there is also nothing wrong with a guy who wants to find a girlfriend and be in a comfortable relationship. point being: we are all different and not everyone fits into a specific category-if you are different than be different no one else has to approve of who you are or the decisions you choose to make. I bet when you find your gf she will be extremely thankful she has found a guy who's sole interest isn't sex! Best of luck-don't stress over this, life's too short to drive urself insane :)
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Everyone has there own thoughts about what guys want. My opinion is that a lot of guys do want a relationship and other { stupid guys } just want to get laid. If you know that you arent like that then thats all that matters and if girls think that all you want to do is get laid then thats there problem not yours. Besides, they could go out with a guy that only wants to get laid and they probably know it too but they go out with the guy still if that makes ne sense lol. I dont know how people can actually tell that guys want to get laid lolol.
~Brina~
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They think this because guys like sex, and some girls aren't peaking as much as guys.There are alot of girls out there who are sexual too, so they dont jump to conclusions that all guys only want sex.If you want to show a girl you want more than nooky,show her by keeping your hands to yourself and let her make the first move when it comes to fooling around.
♥ashley♥
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Sex, girls, laid?!?!?!?! what? Oh, okay.
Have you ever heard of stereotypes before?
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Your one of a kind! :) it is well known that guys like sex alot more than girls. and at a young age, most guys hormones are going crazy and pretty much all they think about is sex. i have had many boyfriends break up with me because i didn't wanna have sex with them. i guess it started off as a stereotype and a bunch of guys were actually like that and before you know it, it seems like all guys are like that. i never judge guys on wether or not they wanna have sex, i judge them on wether they are going to resect me and wait. your a great guy and i'm sure any self respecting girl would be lucky to have you. hope i helped!
~ange
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Well because some guys are scum bags like that. Apparentely your a whole nother story, and you would make a good man. If you have any more "mental" questions IM me @ unxreachhable =) xoxo jessie
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well it sounds like your one of the good mature guys out there! hopefully you can get a girlfriend that will know your not like that.. we all think that becuase most guys are really perverted and hopefully you will get the message out to girls that you arent like every other type of guy! good luck and rate me -kay
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Becuase most guys do think that. At least at my school they do. And a lot of them always take about it in front of girls. If it's not true then just ignore it. Just say that isnt all I want so just shut up about it or something. Hope I helped!
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alot of guys do just want sex. its a proven fact. if you dont then the girl you go out with will find that out in time. if you dont act like that then no one is gonna assume anything about you. hope i helped!
~~stephie~~
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heyy this is alex... well my boyfriend and I just broke up awhile ago and he thought about it.. but he was... more into me than he was into wanting sex.. but.. im not trying to be rude or anything so dont take this the wrong way please.. but I think guys talk or think about it for attention and that stuff.. and im happy for you and your girlfriend I hope your relationship works out really good.. but.. I'm sorry it drives you mental because it annoys me to but I seriously don't think they always think of it I think they do it for attention..
I hoped I helped you good luck with you girlfriend I wish you the best!!! :o)
Alex**
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ok is this a boy or girl???? cuz your saing guys drive you crazy, but your saing when you get a girlfriend you want a relation ship. ok transvestite. guys want sex but thats not all they want respect from other guys. like when a chick walks by and you f'ked her you can say i boned her and the other guys will think your a pimp. but not every one is like that. hey im just telling the truth. ask anyone else who has seen reality. this isnt like some drama show its real life and that is how ppl are..... however there are some ppl that care about their lover (like me)
-Dr.Phil
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You are definitely one of the few guys that actually want a relationship. I know that all guys want it sex is because they just lead girls on and always act like that is all they want. I don't know if this is a very clear answer but write back if it is not.
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Alright, here's what I've come to think about the whole, twisted thing. Let's start simple and work out from there.
Firstly, depending on your age, you can't help but think predominantly of sex. You may want a relationship, yes indeed, but part of that relationship you so fervently desire is sex. In fact, if you had a chance to have a great relationship with someone online you'd never meet, unless you've gone completely through adolescence or keep things alive with pictures and such, you will let that relationship die off because the sex is such a large part of the draw. That goes down somewhat as you age, and eventually fades when you're in your elder years.
But until then it's still very strong. I once heard a woman say that all men are perverted, some just hide it better than others...and I can feel the truth of that statement. Sex, or the future prospect thereof, is a major factor in any honest relationship; if there is never going to be an opportunity for such, a guy will feel a strong desire to break it off. The difference as you age is that you can wait longer, you can keep it down more, it's not so *consuming*.
At adolescent ages many guys don't even try to hide it; it's the major and sometimes only reason they pursue relationships. It's like a drug, it's like booze, it just makes them feel great. So like typical immature people they do it as much as they can get away with...only when they've had their fill or have had it entirely denied will this behavior start to fade. Not all guys are this adamant about it, but all of them feel it, barring some disability...as do you, and you know it. So all guys want sex, and for some of them that's really all they want in a relationship. Once the lust, the *high* starts to fade, they look for someone else, preventing love from ever taking hold and strengthening the relationship.
The thing is, a lot of adolescent girls think in a similar way, but hide it better because they want, they need, the control. It's nature doing its thing...they may not want to admit or accept it, but the draw for sex is a major part of their relationships. They won't want a relationship with someone unattractive if they think they can get a relationship with someone more attractive; it simply defies the way they think. So you may face a lot of frustration unless you're very good at smoothing things over, working with their feelings, and trying to keep them honest. And even then it won't always work out.
There's a general saying that serious dating is practically impossible until well after college for the majority of people. They simply don't want to settle down, they know they can get a lot of people of the other sex and they want to keep on looking until they find what they feel is their best prospect, and then they cling.
This doesn't apply to everyone, but a vast majority of younger people, and as the age goes up a larger percentage will end up maturing earlier than the rest...but to find someone in High School willing to put you above all other people even when you both go to college is very rare indeed.
Of course, if you don't necessarily need the extremely long-term look on things and just want more of a friendship, it's quite a bit easier to find someone like that, but don't expect them to think you don't want sex because you do, and so do they :p
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i kno that most girls think that but if they guys talk about sexual things and stuff like that.. i mean of course we are gonna think that. girls also dont wanna feel used for that! i kno its kidna gay that all girls think every guy wants just sex but they dont! x0
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Most girls think that because most guys do want sexs. I mean theres alot of guys that do want relationships, but you always hear that "he was using her for sex, blah blah". And alot of times girls say that because that incident has happened to them.
<3 brit
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Alright, yes, some girls do think all guys just want sex because they come off like that. If they flirt constantly and talk about sexual things, then what should we expect? That's why I think some guys only want sex. There are also those times when some girls don't always think that guys only want sex. If a guy is nice and doesn't want to rush into anything, then a girl won't think he only wants to be in a relationship with her for sex. Don't let this go to your head, it's not our fault.
-Karen
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