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Asking for advice
I have been having a hard time lately and I feel a bit depressed. I have a person that I admire and we are real close friends but I just am not sure whether or not to talk to her. She is the same age as my mother (54) and has a son that is my age also,(14) I just feel silly going to her and talking. But really, is it silly? She is the only person I trust with my feelings and the things I am having problems with, Advicenators could not help with.
She has told me I can call anytime I have problems but I guess I don't want her son to know that I call his mother. (He use to be my crush....Long time ago....idiot now.) I also feel that she has enough things on her mind, such as, her work (she and her husband own a whole bunch of gas stations in and around WA state. Her 4 other sons also are in the buisiness.) and her family.
Should I just call her and talk? would I be a annoyance?
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No! it is not silly at all. It is perfectly fine for you to want to go and talk too her. What are smoe of the problems you have been having with....i think i could help since i have been in many othwer situations prob. like your own. older people are always wanting to help us. It is how we come mature by the advice o0thers give us. No you wouldn't be an annoyance, i can bet you she would be thrilled to hear your voice. The best you can do is call her and talk...
Hope i helped!
~*Crystal_Lake*~
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She said you can call her, so call her. If she has too many things on her mind or can`t talk, I`m sure she would tell you. You can`t keep your feelings bottled up too long.
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You should definitely call her and talk to her about your problems and such. If she told you that you can call her anytime if you have a problem, then she means it. It wouldn't be silly at all. She will probably be really happy with helping you out. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Actually, its pretty great that you've got a mom type figure instead of a friend your age, an adult with lots of experiance will actually give you more help. So, still talk to her, shes obviously helping you, and you just shouldn't have to get id of something that helps you.
-TheTeenGirl
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no its not silly! i dont think she would care if you asked for help because she offered to help and talk whenever! its tottaly fine and i think that you should call her and talk to her! x0
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she'll probably be happy to help out. she offered her help and she'll want you to talk to her if you need to. she might actually need the distraction. so call her, she's got no daughters so she will prolly be happy to help out a young girl like yourself. :)
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