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please help!!!!
well lately i keep questioning the relationship between my boyfriend and i. i analyze every little thing he says in letters,emails,on a site we both use,on the phone. i dont do it as often when him and i are together in person. i'm not sure what to make of it. perhaps i'm afraid of things ending and letely paranoid he will find someone else. the thing is he doesn't realize hes too good for me because i am his first girlfriend so i suppose he hasnt seen what exactly the best is yet.
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Ok, if he's stayed with you then he must care about you. You should just trust him. Don't be afraid of the relationship ending or if things don't work out. You must really care about him but if it's meant to be then it will work out and if it's not then it won't. You need to just trust him. If he hasn't realized that he's too good for you then he's probably not. He probably just cares about you and doesn't care about what anyone else says or thinks or who's "the best." You should think about that. He's your boyfriend. Try to relax and have a good time with him. You need to just trust him and have fun with your relationship. Don't be worried about him leaving you enjoy it while it lasts. I don't know how old you are but if you break up it's not the end of the world you will find someone else and if you two are meant to be together then you will probably get back together. If he didn't care about you then he would have probably left you already. Just relax and trust your boyfriend. He probably cares a lot about you and wants to be with you.
Good luck and I hope I helped
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Don't be so down on yourself. He chose to go out with you because he likes you not someone you consider "better". Enjoy your time with him and do over analyze everything. :)
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Just relax, analyzinq every little thing won't do anything for the relationship but make it tense, like you are now. Yes, he still has alot to explore, but right now he's with you. And if he didn't like you and think you were the best thing for him right now, he wouldn't have picked you as his first. and that saying, "you never forget your fist love," is so true so what ever happens in the future.. you`ll always be apart of him. Young relationships end eventually for one reason or another and you'll both find someone new.. but enjoy it now and make the best of everything or else you'll have no good memories to remmeber.
Things will work out for the best, x0x JordY|♥
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Maybe he is to scared to like do anything like dump you or maybe hes to scared your goa dump him if he has no idea what a real relshinship is like .. i tell all my friends this " it dosnt matter how many boyfriends you have becz 2% chance is your goona get married " maybe your too good for him maybe you should stop being so paranoyed and just trust him.
Good-Luck
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