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I want to be ME around him.


Question Posted Saturday April 30 2005, 4:47 pm

Sorry if its long thats because im giving detail.

Well, it all started out at school I have a best friend named Tomas and hes the populariest guy in school, and he has a girl friend Haily, who is my best friend and shes the most populariest girl in school. Well Tomas and I sat at lunch next to each other and with our friends than all of a sudden we were all talking about dating and boyfriend and girlfriend and my friend goes will you go out with Holly? <me> and he said maybe yeah, kinda. And he was right next to me and he said it out loud and everyone was like Ohhh you have a boyfriend Holly im like shh.. keep it on the low we may get in trouble than all of a sudden i like him to but he doesn't know and now im acting different around him because im scared he may hate me, and he likes me of who i am now, and i don't want to change who i am because i know he will not like me and i don't want that, and he has a girlfriend.. so what should i do? Its not stopping and im not just going to say Tomas i like you! its not that easy. and worse part i know im acting different when im around him.. i can't be me.. its hard around him.. PLEASE HELP ME!


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ImHere4u answered Sunday May 1 2005, 5:11 pm:
I totally understand that because everyone always feels that way about someone eventually. Honestly though, the best thing to do is just try to be really good friends with him right now. Especially since this is your best friend. It might be hard but you don't want to be the cause of them breaking up and lose your friend and it won't be that bad. Your relationships don;'t last forever especially since they're popular. I'm sure she'll find someone new. So just hold it off for a little and knoinq untill they break uo your "jsut firends" will make it easier to talk to him.

It won't be long, x0x JordY|&hearts;

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