Ok so this is whats going on: I'm 16 (so is he) and a sophmore. Lately Ive been hanging out a lot with this guy from another school. He's great! Really funny, good looking, into soccer, can drive (lol thats always a PLUS), lots of the same friends.. you get it right? Ok well there are some problems that i need some advice on!! 1)He goes to another school. Its really close to mine but its a catholic school. 2) I cant tell if he likes me as much as I like him. And I cant tell if he's like this with every other girl. I was talking to my friend about him and she was like "yeah well who wouldnt like him?!" ...i want a relationship but i dont want to speed into it. I dont want to be liking a guy who 452456875242578 other girls like. 3)He's into some bad stuff.. but he knows I dont like it very much. Other than that he's great!!! He even let me drive his car through the parking lot :) it was so cute since i dont even have my permit yet and he didnt let anyone else drive at all. And he has the most adorable smile ever! whoa i really have no idea what to do.. PLEASE HELP! I'll rate since its so long
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x_next_2_you_x0 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 12:12 pm: my best friend was having the same type problem with a guy from another school...she likes him a lot and thinks that he is the perfect guy for her but he goes to a different school and she didnt know if he liked her the way that she likes him...so she ended up calling him and telling him how she felt about him and he ended up saying that he felt the same way about her but he didnt know if she felt the same way...so maby this guy that you like feels the same way about you but he dosent want to tell you...by the way you describe your relationship with him the worst thing he could say if you tell him is he maby only likes you as a friend...and friends can always turn into more then friends...so my advise to you would be to give him a call and tell him how you feel when you are ready...hope i helped <33
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Karen answered Sunday February 27 2005, 12:04 pm: You need to talk to this guy and ask him if he acts the same or differently to other friends. If you two are friends, then I'm sure he will tell you. It sounds like this guy likes you, since he let you drive his car a little bit, and he seems to care for, which is good. Find out if he likes anyone else. You can talk to his close friend or have a friend ask him. If you like him, then you should take a chance and ask him out. If he's into bad stuff and he knows that you don't want him to do that, then you need to tell him to stop. If he flirts with you, then it may mean that he is interested in you but like you said, he may be like this with other girls. Just try talking to him and tell him how you feel about him and find out if he likes any other girls and such.
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advicechick123 answered Sunday February 27 2005, 11:59 am: He might be rele rele rele nice, and cuet, but if hes into bad stuff..meaning...drugs? beer? smoking?? any of that i wouldnt like him anymore he might be nice to you but not always to everybody else, see if he likes u, and flirt a little moer, and if u get a kiss, talk him out of w/e bad stuff hes doing.
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