What do you do if your friend tells you to find someone new, because they like the same person you do and say they like them back? I believe it to be a bit harsh. If your friend cared for you, wouldn't they just leave it alone instead of saying something like that?
icey0990 answered Friday February 25 2005, 11:39 pm: She could have been more gentle and nice about it. I guess if i liked someone and he liked ME back..and my friend liked him too..i would kinda want him because the guy likes me back. However..if i saw that my friend was hurt then i would put aside the guy until she was definately ok. Your friend is probably excited that she found a guy who likes her back..maybe she got caught up in the moment. Talk to her about it and maybe she will put the guy off until your over him. I bet she doesnt know that your hurt and you want her to forget about it. Just talk to her..its the best way to settle it :) [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
annka answered Friday February 25 2005, 10:33 pm: i think you have too see how much you like the guy...if i was you i would move on..since he choose your friend over you he is not the one for you..he did not see your beauty or personality to be the best...if you think he is the one well you need to wait...as for the friend..i think she sux at being a friend...a friend would not do that...i guess this is a good thing beacuse now you know who are your real friends..
MiZzAdViCe16 answered Friday February 25 2005, 9:05 pm: no...she stillc cares for you but she is just a little caught up with this boy right now but after the fling that they have everything will be back to normal dont worry just wait a little longer and everything will be ok
Karen answered Friday February 25 2005, 8:59 pm: Well, if this guy likes you friend, then you really do need to find someone else to like, since you won't have a chance with him right now. Yes, this is a bit harsh and your friend shouldn't have said that and you two should have agreed on something else, when it comes in between this guy. If you just think your friend just said that because she wanted him to herself and wanted you to stop liking him, then find out if it's true if he does like her and if it's not, then you don't have to find someone new.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
advicechick123 answered Friday February 25 2005, 8:55 pm: I had this same situation, but i dumped him bc i made her in pain. It hurt me and him, but i askd people and they said that your Bff isnt incharge of ur relationships. She'll get over it in time, and no guy should break a friendship, and if he does than that wasn't really a good friendship at all.
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