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my mom and my x
hey.. im a 23/m... my mom and my xgirlfriend are like really close. well, we all live at a campsite and we are all really close, there's like, a bunch of friends living together, but i dont really have to explain that. well, they are really close because we've all known eachother since we were like 6, and all the older ones were like, 40. anyway. well, i really think i still like her, a little, but we broke up because i came in drunk and she got upset, and well we were gonna get engaged but it didnt work out. nd now her and my mom are really close and its bothering me a little, because now im all awkward around her, even though ive known her my whole entire life.
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the only thing thats making things awkward is you. you think you have to be but you dont. just talk to her, thats all. once you get everything out in the open yall can work things out and things wont be so awkward. and if you really do like this girl, youll stop drinking if she dosent like it .. y are u drinking anyway, and y did she get mad in the first place? think about it..
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Well you can stop drinking just go up to her and ask her if she wants to go to dinner together or som,ewhere just the two of you and maybe she will see that you have changed and she would want to take you back. Tell her who you feel about her and that you are willing to change.. Hope things work out
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well if u think you still like her then apoligize to her for coming in drunk. atleast become friends again u guys have known each other for to long to just never talk again.
i hope everything works out
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why did you come in drunk? Well, if your upset about them being friends, you cant do anything about it. They probably developed a strong bond because of you. plus, you said theyve known eachother since she was like 6? and you guys are 23 now? thats a mega long time to know someone, 17 years.
<3 xo kennah
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I really don't know what you are asking, but I am going to try and answer this question as best as I can. If you still have feelings for her, then maybe they're unresolved feelings or issues that only you can define by looking within yourself. Once you discover the issues, then you have to figure out what you're going to do with them and about them. You have to figure that out because your x will remain being friends with your mother unless it's sabotaged. No hope. You have to figure out if you want to verbally accept it, or if you want to remain awkward around her with these awkward feelings. It's really all up to you. Your choice. When you've figured out what you want to do, then you'll know that it must be right for you. So goodluck with your choice and I hope I was some help. Good day to you.
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u got it rough. yet i think you shsould really talk to your girlfriend about this. i mean, you and her are the only 2 who can do anything about it.
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You need to talk to your ex-girlfriend and tell her how you feel about everything. Tell her that being drunk makes you do things and that she shouldn't have been upset and she shouldn't have dumped you, just because of that. She probably has realized that she made a big mistake of dumping you, just for that reason, and she may still have feelings for you. You need to talk to her and see if she does like you because if you two were supposed to get married, then your relationship definitely meant something to both of you. If you've known her for your whole life, then you should be able to talk to her. Maybe you two can work something out if she happens to forgive you and have feelings for you? Just tell her how you feel because you will have to do this one day, no matter what.
-Karen
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You really have to tell her what you feel. Since it was a stupid reason for breaking up, she probably still has feelings for you. I think you should either, call her up or talk to her face to face about your feelings. You're going to have to tell her someday. You'll feel so much better once you tell her everything and why you like her so much. Just leave all your feelings out. If she feels the same way, work something out so you guys can get back together. If she doesn't feel the same way, you'll have to find someone new. You have to take the chance of telling her though. I know everything good might not come out of this, but that's the chance you should be willing to take for this girl. But in the end, if it's meant to be, it'll find a way.
♥ Krissy
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Show her that you are a respnsible, and mature. Be nice and don;t mind that they are friends, because it mioght get her back.
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