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please help me
ok i like this guy at school. he is in my gym class and i always look at him like he is the man of my dreams. he's nice funny cute sweet.anyway i can't seem to get his attention. i see him look at me when i'm looking at himbut i immeditley turn away. i'm shy around him but loud around his best freind. i don't even have the guts to call him. his name is matt and if you know who he is please help me out.when i was in 2nd grade i liked him and i still do now. he invited me over to his house three times in 2nd grade and i even saw a picture of him when he was a baby and when he was naked!
i guess my question is can u please help me to ask him to a dance at the end of the year which is on june 7th. if you know me please don't tell matt that i like him ok
signed please help me!!!!!!!!!
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The only way you can get him to the dance is to get to know him. Maybe share you memories about when yall were in 2 grade. Make it obvious you like him but dont be annoying. Maybe if you have a class with him call him and ask for help with your homewrk. Say hi to him in the halls when you see him. Try to make a connection with him. Once you get to know him...make you move and ask if he is taken. hope this helps! good luck:) xoxo BLONDE911
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Just tell him. He'll be shaking in his boots and learn to deal with it. I've had the same exact ordeal happen to me, only with a person that I had no clue who she was. And I have another friend who just flat out told a girl that he liked her even though he knew it might make her feel funny about him. If you start slowly until you hint at it, he might just say "Forget it" and move on. If you want to reduce that chance, just tell him straight on.
-EDIT: Oh fun. Pictures of naked babies. How sexy.
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try to tlk 2 him, even though it might be hard. when you're with his best friend and he's there to, talk to him. include him in your conversation. dont ignore him, because then he wont know youre interested. after you start talking to him more and more, start flirting with him more and more... and what happens happens. then once youve done that, when youre talking to him, bring up the fact about the dance. be like "so who are you going to the dance with?" and since you have gym with him, you can talk to him then if youre too shy to talk to him at luch or sumthing. work yourself in there girl! hope i helped!!!
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ya i can help u. when u tlk 2 him, look @ him in the eye. and laugh at his jokes (just dont sound OBNOXIOUS) and touch him. like on his shoulder and stuff. if u look @ him n u guys r far away from eachother, look @ him, n when he looks @ u, smile and look away. play hard 2 get, but not too hard. well hope i helped u again!
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If he has an AIM name you should ask him, Get one of his firends to mention it to him...like you said you laughw th his best friend so have him mention you are cute and he should ask you to the dance -- Or you can work your way in and start talking to him! No harm done..your a girl have fun with it..youll regret it if you dont -- Theres a first time for everything
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You need to stop placing him on a pedestal. Right now, it sounds like you think of him as the dreamiest hottie on the planet. You're so concerned with how you act/look around him, that you're unable to be yourself.
Make a list of his bad qualities, or if not "bad" qualities, then stupid stuff he's done, or qualities that make him normal. If it works, you'll be able to see that he's as normal as you and me, and maybe you'll be able to look at him as just another guy, rather than almost-a-god.
Try talking to him. It'll probably take babysteps, but you've got a couple months yet. Start with stupid conversations, like talking about the weather, or your gym class, or cafeteria food, or a favorite movie or band, just normal stuff like that.
Try to become friends with his best friend. Since it's too hard to talk to your crush, you can get closer to him by getting closer to his friend. Who knows, by May you might be close enough to the friend to get him to ask your crush out for you. (not always the best option out there, but it works for some people)
Anyways, good luck! Smile, try to be yourself, and keep reminding yourself that this guy is NOT perfect.
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