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we're the closest of friends. i've fallen for him hard. what
we dated about 7 months ago for a month about and it ended because i guess he just lost interest in it.
we never saw eachother over the summer after he persued me last year and after we got together a bit this year and it didnt work, we developed an amazing friendship. i'm the girl who his family loves (hes told me how much his parents "adore" me haha) and i'm the only girl who spends time with him and his family like at movies or something.
he's gone through the typical 16 year old guy phase of wanting to date everything and anything with a skirt on this year after things didnt work between us....which is fine, i understand it. now i'm becoming good friends with his best friend who he thinks i should give it a try with as a relationship because "he deserves a girl like me"...i may like the guy a bit but i dont want to act on it. as for my guy-hes going out with a girl i don't really like right now and hes admitted to his buds that he still kinda likes me (but its a secret i guess). i don't know what to do.
does it seem like we may have a chance in the future?
should i mabye give it a try with his best friend who is truely a really great guy-would that affect the chances of us ever"
what do you think is going on in his head?
i need all the advice, thoughts, opinions i can get. please help-i'll rate. thanks.
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I dont think theres anything between you and the guy you use to date, otherwise it would have never ended, and with all the hanging out and talking you and your guy friend do, more than likely he sees you as just a really great friends.And if there was something more than friendship, he wouldnt be telling you his bestfriend is interested in you and that you two should give it a try.
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Well i think that you should go out with his best friend, give it a try, u said he was a great guy, so try it. you and your best friend might have a relationship in the future also, but for now he probably needs to try new people to make sure he really likes you.
hope i helped
Becki
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I do think there is a possible chance for you in the future i also think that you should tell him how you feel and if you want to go out with that other guy it shouldnt effect the chances of going bak out with thim because he has a girlfriend now to and that still doesnt effect the chances of you to being together in the future
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hmmm it sounds like you guys are the perfect match...i would go out with his friend because you might start liking him since you said he is a great guy and if it doesnt work out between you and the guy then maybe your lover boy might get jealous of another guy having his arms around you so he might ask you out...all of it is might but do what your heart says is right
hope i helped
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Well I would wait until your ex breaks up with his girlfriend...and you need to find new people to. It might not work out between you two, so you do have to move on...try to get to know the other guy a little bit more..hang out and stuff..see if you like him! Then if you guys go out, cool. But for now I say look around for other guys, forget about your ex for now because he has a girlfriend. And maybe in the future you'll go out?
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