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should she ask him out?
ok, well i dont want to make this too long so here it goes
my sis 14/f and this 1 kid down the street(eddie)13/m and i are all best friends. but me and my sis are starting to think he likes my sis, he called her his WIT (wife in training)and we thought it was a joke but were now rethinking it. She likes him but she doesnt want to, but then does want to. weve been best friends 4 a long time and she doesnt want to ruin that, i need advice, should she ask him out, or should she leave it alone???plz help
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This is my brilliant answer: Your sister and Eddie shall do a... you know, an everyday conversation. But there's a catch. Your sister will spray Lysol on Eddie, every time he talks about WIT or dating or something related to that topic. Even if it's not about them. THEN let us see how good ol' Eddie feels about your sister... If this works, you owe me a coke. If not, then it's your fault for posting this up, where it's visible for me to see...
~SAM
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I think you should just spend more time with him so you dont ruin anything. If you decide to take things further, and if you break up tell him straight to his face i dont want to ruin our friendship. I think this is the best advice for these situations. I hoped I helped! :) xoxo BLONDE911
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sometimes boys just do that to make gurls get gased and stuff but then if you think he is seriuos just the next time he says that just ask him if he is seriuos about it
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I think she needs to make that descision for herself.
Edit: tell her she needs to decide whether she is willing to risk the friendship in pursuit of something more.. Personally I would wait.. as not many relationships tend to last at such a young age... also she should consult you also.. if she decides to date him.. and she breaks up.. as you are also friends with him.. it could possibly affect the friendship between you and him, and that could affect the bond you have as siblings..
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Why don't you ask him? You never know, he may have something...
But also, if they've been best friends for a long time, then she might want to think about it if he does like her, just in case the relationship ends bitterly. I've seen the ex-couple still be friends, and I've also seen them hate eachother.
Good Luck! =)
X♥X♥---Julia
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Well jus chance it and see what he says..much luv dez
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if your sister likes him, then i think she should go for it, as long as he likes her too, but your sister and the boy should sit down and talk and make sure that if they do go out, and eventually break up, then they should make sure that they will still be friends.. hope i helped*
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well if your sister likes him then why not...if he says no then it might be awkward for a little bit but if your that close as you say then the guy should have no problem with it...if your sister doesnt liek him that much then she shoudnt...i would if i liked the guy because since you guys are such close then the relationship might last because you know each other very well
hope i helped...friendship may blume to love
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Well its a risk she is willing to take. Sometimes the best of friends make the best couples. Its true. At least thats how it works most of the time. So i think she should try and consider it and if it gets to wierd then i think she should stop and talk to him about it. I mean have them sit down and talk about it before they do go out though-trix
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Well, if your sister doesn't know her feelings for this guy, then she should leave it alone and not ask him out because it may change her friendship with this guy and you and her have been friends with him for a long time and it would seem weird for your sister to be going out with him. If she likes him, then she can take the chance and talk to him and telling him how she feels about him and then she can ask him out.
-Karen
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i dont think so because if they break up then all ya being friends wont be the same and you might get mad that they spending two much time together and get lonely
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no way, if theyve been good friends like that its best to keep it that way in my opinion
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