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love triangle
ok well heres the deal..i REALLY like this guy and hes sooo sweet! he told me i was hott and hes always talking to me and leading me on..and if he askes me out..i would have my first boyfriend ever. thing is, one of my best friends supposedly "loves" him and she doesnt even know him and they never talk..unlike me i have talked to him lots of times. and now my best freind and him are starting to talk like online, but he ignores her a lot so he can talk to me..and shes making it seem like a competition and always rubbing things in my face whenever they have sumthing in common. another thing it, she knows that he likes me, but she doesnt know that i like him...its really confusing. if she found out she would be soo upset..she even said "if u ever liked him i would hate u" and i dont know what to do cuz shes had tons of boyfriends and i really want this guy to be my first bf. pleas help..ill rate everyone.
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well it seems your friend thinks she's better than you and cannot respect you enough to admit that a guy likes you better than her...i would still go for the guy even if she does get mad...if she can't accept you and him then you shouldn't worry about it and find more friends that won't think that they are better than you...a friend that would be on the same level...
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A real friend would be happy for you. Go out with the guy. If your friend can't get over it, then I guess she's not a very good friend. And the fact she rubs it in your face is an indicator there'll be friction even if you didn't go out with him. Besides, it's not like she's gonna end up with him. Most guys don't go after the friend.
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Do you want a friend that would hate you over something so stupid?She doesnt want you to have a boyfriend.She wants you to be lonely.If you really like him you should go for it.And if your friend hates you for it oh well.You now know who your real friends are.Don't let her keep you from having a life and a boyfriend.Have fun.She isn't a friend if she will hate you over something like that.
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tell your friend to get a life...if you like the guy and he likes you go an dtell him that you like him...that girl is not your friend...she is just a jealous little girl...if she really was your friend she would respesct the idea that you might like him and she should back down since he likes you
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You DON'T need a friend like that. If she's going to make it a competition and say things like "if you ever liked him i would have you" yet she doesnt even know you like him.. that's not a good firend at all! What so called good friend would say stuff like that? Obviously he's not into her if he ignores her for you so ditch the friend if she's gunna b b!tch!e and b w/ someone who would care more for you.
Hope everything turns out, x0x Jordy|♥
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Ok, if your best friend rarely talks to him, and he ignores her a lot. Tell her he isn't worth it. Then tell her he talks to you a lot, and has told you he likes you. See what her reaction is. If she reacts horribly to the fact that he likes you, I wouldn't go out with him. A guy is never worth losing a best friend over. But.. most likely she'll get over him in a few weeks. Give her time, and then go with him. She can't say anything because she won't like him anymore. And she can't say you dated her ex, because well, they never dated.
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