Question Posted Thursday February 24 2005, 7:20 pm
i have this friend thats not very cool and no one really knows her...but she cuts herself..she showed me today and i started wondering why she would do that...i told my friend about it cause were in office aid together and she was feeling bad for her..she also smokes pot...do u think i should still be friends with her or not?
Football33prep answered Friday February 25 2005, 4:20 pm: Of course you should stay friends with her. Friends are friends no matter what. She cuts herself then dont worry about that. Just try to forget that you know and just stay on the good times. Hope i helped :D! [ Football33prep's advice column | Ask Football33prep A Question ]
nicolenicolenicole answered Thursday February 24 2005, 11:11 pm: shes crying out for help or attention if she told you she did it. dont ditch her cuts are only skin deep the reason people cut is because they just want to hurt themselves to feel physical pain instead of emotional pain. Pot isnt a big deal, i bet ur parents smoked up in high school, only start to worry if she has cones every single day or always seems to be stoned.. why wouldnt you be friends with her because of that? it hardly has anything to do with you, its like not being friends with someone coz they r fat or ugly [ nicolenicolenicole's advice column | Ask nicolenicolenicole A Question ]
orphans answered Thursday February 24 2005, 9:32 pm: you should definitely stay friends with her! if she were to lose a friend, it would probably make things worse. help her through everything, talk to her and try to help her with her problems. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
toastnbutter answered Thursday February 24 2005, 8:46 pm: you should look behide all the cuts and smoking pot and see if you like her personality. Do u like it? if you do be friends wit her. if u dont tell her you dont wanna be her friend nomore. but not because she cuts herself and smokes pot [ toastnbutter's advice column | Ask toastnbutter A Question ]
MiZzAdViCe16 answered Thursday February 24 2005, 8:19 pm: no because she might try to push you into doing pot and that will be bad
Karen answered Thursday February 24 2005, 8:12 pm: Yes, you should definitely still be friends with her, since she needs to someone there for her right now because she is going through something that she needs support from someone. Show her that you care for her and that you are there for her. Just don't do the same thing she does like cutting and smoking pot.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
LiSaxOBaBii answered Thursday February 24 2005, 8:08 pm: now is the time when she needs to know someone cares. obviously, something is bothering her..that's why she is harming herself. just be patient with her, so she will be comfortable telling you what's wrong because if you don't help things could get a whole lot worse. [ LiSaxOBaBii's advice column | Ask LiSaxOBaBii A Question ]
HOPEICANHELP answered Thursday February 24 2005, 8:06 pm: I think you need to help this girl and continue to be her friend. You can turn someones life around you know. Try asking her why she cuts herself and try and help her out. Introduce her to people, maybe shes not very popular, and is having a hard time with school and friends, or maybe her home life isn't going well. Try and help her with her problems and tell her that you wish she would quit cutting herself and smoking pot, make sure to do this after you have become friends with her. You can help this girl, you could save her life. [ HOPEICANHELP's advice column | Ask HOPEICANHELP A Question ]
iNdEeD2isBaK answered Thursday February 24 2005, 8:00 pm: be friends with her so you can help her in fact just today i heard about a grl shes not really my friend but she is my cuzins(who is also in my class) friend....so help her
hope i helped
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xosweetiepiexo answered Thursday February 24 2005, 7:48 pm: you should definetly be her friend... right now she needs some one to be there for her... help her to enjoy life so she won't cut or smoke... just make sure you don't get pressured into doing that junk... help her through everything [ xosweetiepiexo's advice column | Ask xosweetiepiexo A Question ]
vchicka15 answered Thursday February 24 2005, 7:45 pm: i think you should be friends with her if you like her.. just dont try pot or cut yourself.. you should be a good friend and get her help.. maybe all she needs is a friend [ vchicka15's advice column | Ask vchicka15 A Question ]
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