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so ive liked this guy for the longest time. we went out for a year and it was great. i was so happy. im not really sure why we broke up. anyways, i cant get over him. i like him so much..more than you could imagine. but i dont WANT to like him. i dont WANT him to be in my mind all day. what i want is to be over him.
any ideas on what to do?
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well dont talk to him at all and you will forget him and get over him trust me it works it workd for mee !!
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i'd try to open your minds up to any other possible guys. any guys you know that are cute, funny, etc. but you really dont know em, try to get to know em a little better. ask em for help in class or somethin...try small talk...make friends with em...see if you could possibly be interested in them. also...say for example you have a song that reminds you of him. if it comes on the radio or whatever, find something else to listen to. or if you 2 have pics together, try to look at them as little as possible. hope i helped! good luck. guys can be rough but i hope you figure things out.
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You can't tell your heart to stop having feelings for someone. Try to remember why you broke up in the first place-- even ask him if necessary. You can't fix a problem (which would be either getting over him or patching up your relationship with him) if you don't know what it is.
Of course, you can always sit there & make a list of his awful qualities & read them every time he's on your mind, but I have a feeling that even if you set your mind to it, you won't be able to come up with any really bad qualities.
So really, try to remember why your relationship failed in the first place. There had to have been a reason.
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do you talk to him?? if you do, that might be the problem because you're coming more & more attached by talking to him. if you're not, then that's good because you need time & space to get over someone. i think what you should do is go out & hang out with other people. i'm not totally saying 'dates' but if you got to know guys more & everything, you'll probably like him less. juss don't be surprised if he does the same thing as you. you're both juss trying to meet new people & that's fine. have your friends help you out. go to the movies, dinner, shopping, bowling, etc. & ask them to bring guy friends & you can hang out & talk.
-hope that helped!♥
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