14+f ...all right.. well I dont like hugging people.. i just dont.. like after achieving something amazing.. or saying hello/goodbye... i just HATE giving hugs and try to avoid them.. like.. i dont know.. I think i'm just afraid... is there like something wrong with me??
LiLJaZzY answered Monday April 18 2005, 11:34 am: haha well you can let go of the un-normal theory..maybe your just closterphobic (i think thats how you spell it) where you dont like to be close to people..or theres another thing where you just dont like to hug people..its perfectly normal and common and you have nothing to worry about but if you would like to hug people and fit in then you should practice on bears (weird i kno but it helps!) and when you hug the bear think of something you really like and it makes you happy..same thing with humans when you hug them think of something happy! hope i helped..xox [ LiLJaZzY's advice column | Ask LiLJaZzY A Question ]
foxychick993 answered Sunday April 17 2005, 6:40 pm: there is absolutly nothing wrong with you. You obviously just don't like the felling of affection. There is nothing wrong with that. Tell me how it works on my feedback or inbox. [ foxychick993's advice column | Ask foxychick993 A Question ]
o0xbrianna answered Sunday April 17 2005, 12:30 pm: Lol, thats a little weird. I don't think anythings wrong with you, you just sound like paranoid. You seem like a non-handson person, but thats okay.
Karen answered Sunday April 17 2005, 11:27 am: Nope, there is nothing wrong with you. Some people just don't like to give hugs and want their space and you're just one of those people, which is normal, don't worry. When you get older, this will change. [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Sunday April 17 2005, 6:52 am: No there isnt anything wrong with you. You dont have to touch people or hug them.
ShYbl0nD3 answered Sunday April 17 2005, 12:17 am: naa theres nothing wrong with you, some people just liked to be hugged more than others ans some not at all. so you're still normal lol. [ ShYbl0nD3's advice column | Ask ShYbl0nD3 A Question ]
heya answered Saturday April 16 2005, 11:16 pm: Nahh not really. Im not a hugging kind of person either. I dunno i just..i dont hug ppl..not even my mom that much. Theres nothing wrong with you...you just dont like hugging ppl. I know lots of people like that. [ heya's advice column | Ask heya A Question ]
MCalways answered Saturday April 16 2005, 11:13 pm: You are perfectly normal! You are just a person that hates hugging people! That is perfectly fine. I have a thing about hugging people to--I also hate it haha. Theres nothing wrong with ya hun! [ MCalways's advice column | Ask MCalways A Question ]
omggitserica answered Saturday April 16 2005, 10:46 pm: Dear Anti-hug person,
No, theres nothing wrong with you. Hugs give some people security, but they give others insecurity. You simply don't like the feeling or emotion of hugging. Thats fine, just don't worry about it. [ omggitserica's advice column | Ask omggitserica A Question ]
truadvice answered Saturday April 16 2005, 10:39 pm: there is nothing wrong with you ... you may just not like being touched ... its a sensory intorgation thing ... its ok your normal . [ truadvice's advice column | Ask truadvice A Question ]
ask.cass answered Saturday April 16 2005, 10:36 pm: no there is nothing wrong with you, i had the same problem i got used to hugging and showing affection because there was this guy i really liked and he tried to put his arm around me and i pulled away i really wanted him to so i let him and he started hugging me and stuff it was nice... but i still sometimes don't like showing affection i don't know i just hate it... [ ask.cass's advice column | Ask ask.cass A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday April 16 2005, 10:33 pm: I guess it would depend on what you are afraid of! Not everyone is into all the touchy feeley things. Could be you are just one of those people. Does this include family and current or future boyfriend? If so, you might have a problem with that last one. If you are very concerned seek counseling. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
MissIiVannaH answered Saturday April 16 2005, 10:29 pm: I'm like you im not a very affectionate person but that's okay.Like at school my bestfriend after ever period on our way to class she has anther group of friends EVERY time she see's them she gives them a hug is drives me crazy because I think it's annoying.But no there is absolutly nothing wrong with you your just not affectionate but that can changes over time and you wont even notice. Good luck I hope I helped! [ MissIiVannaH's advice column | Ask MissIiVannaH A Question ]
Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Saturday April 16 2005, 10:16 pm: no nothings wrong with you! but its called something..i cant member but theres a name for people who dont like to be hugged by others! theres nothing wrong! lots of people have differnt bubbles meaning differnt amounts of space they need between another person..yours is just more then otehrs! dont worry about it
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