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please help me. my ex-boyfriend, who i just broke up with yesterday, is now all of a sudden going out with my best friend!! i have no idea what to do, any advice?
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WHOA! major major breech of the "girl code" i hate to say this but maybe you should back track to when you and your boyfriend where dating and find out if he was cheating on you with her. and if she was any kind of friend to you she'd never hook up with your ex at all. that's just not cool
*~*shan*~*
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whoa.. thats reall weird.. him and your best friend most have been talking for awhle and had this planend becuase that dosent just happen out of the blue like that.... and are you sure thats your best freinds becuase they arent supposed to really go for your guys.. id make sure you get your proties of who your freinds are staight before you go any further
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Dont worry about it.. you shouldnt care you dumped him..and he's probably wanting to make you jealous..much luv
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Maybe your best friend isn't loyal. I can tell you I would never go out with my friend's ex even if he was real cute!
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talk to your best friend about thw whole situation..apparently shes not your best friend if shes going out with your ex. if that doesn't work, then ignore them period. if she starts to wonder why your not around/ talkin to her anymore, then just tell her how you feel and that you TRIED talking to her and she wouldnt listen.
~*Sarah*~
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yeah...that happened to me too. i got so pissed though. whatever you do,do not get in a physical confrontation with her...unless of course all she talks about is him and she's shoving it in your face. then you can kick her ass. and there's no way possible your "best friend" could be that good of friends with you if she had the nerve to do that. unless she's completely desperate.you have my sympathy and dont break down and cry and all (we all want to)...don't show her unless you're gonna tell her straight out, no stalling. good luck!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
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I'm really sorry to hear that. You must be really upset. But think... He probably broke up with you because he had feelings for her anyway. So it's not really your fault. But if he's just going out with her to make you jealous or anything like that, he's probably not worth it. Am I any help? Hope so!
~Nikki
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First of all, your "best friend" really isn't your best friend because a <i>true</i> best friend wouldn't have done that to you. I would be pissed at your "best friend" because she was a bitch (excuse my language) for going out with your ex boyfriend a day after he dumped you! Who in their right mind would do that to their "best friend"? I swear, if that ever happened to me, I would go Kung Foo on that bitches ass!!! I'd be like HYYYYYYYYYYAAAAAAAAHHH! Yep, just like that. Anyway, you should talk to your friend and see why she'd do something like that to you! That's so horrible. I don't think you should be friends with her anymore after that. That has to be the lowest thing a "friend" can do to another friend. I wouldn't go and find another boyfriend just for revenge because that's low on your part. Try to talk to her or maybe even your ex to figure out why they'd do that. If they don't want to be your friend or anything, screw them! It's their loss anyway! Feel better love. Hope this helped.
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I could see you being upset if he broke up with you to go out with your best friend..becuase ive had that happen to me before and it was upsetting..but you cant really say anything if you broke up with him..but still your friend should have asked you how you felt about it first xOx tOrY
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Well have you talked to your best friend?? it seams like ur not only hurt by your EX-bf but also your "best friend" maybe you should just talk to her and see if she knows how you feel.
im me if this didnt help much.. SORRY ur in this situation
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talk to your BFF, a BFF shouldn't go out with her BFF's ex BF! if not that she isn't a true friend. Best friends become before Boy Friends! If not they aren't a true friend. Friends (and friends feelings) should come 1st before any guy, it's the wrongs to betray a friend and go out with her ex.
I'm sorry you got hurt like this.
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Well, it sounds to me that you are feeling not only hurt by your ex-boyfriend, but also betrayed by your best friend. First of all, have you talked with your best friend yet about how her new relationship makes you feel? Try that. Most often, talking out your problems with another person involved helps you both to sort out the conflict. Remember this, if this person is truly your best friend, they will understand how you are feeling. Hope i helped! <3 Erika
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