Question Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 7:27 pm
I really need some help. For the past almost 6 years of my life, i have been looking at porno. I am addicted. It is literally ruining my life. It takes time away from my hobbies, my family, and my relationship with God. Can someone please advise me on how to stop this addiction? Please dont ban this question either. I truely need help
Bellesono answered Thursday January 6 2005, 1:18 pm: Dear Addict,
You have made it obvious that this is something that you would like to stop and that it is an addiction. This would be considered an addiction and unhealthy because it is taking time away from your everyday life. You need to seek counseling as soon as possible. Your alternatives could be taking up a sport or joining a club at your school. In which would take time away from watching porn. Good luck.
♥Sarah and Brandon [ Bellesono's advice column | Ask Bellesono A Question ]
bob745 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 4:10 am: hmmmmmmm....well some pussy is what you need....take time to move away from your relationship with god and formulate your relationship with members of the OPPOSITE sex. you know go out and meet people, after you get a steady relationship going you can jack off all you want, i assure you it will not be taking away from your life, just adding to it [ bob745's advice column | Ask bob745 A Question ]
AngelofMusic answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 9:08 pm: Porn is fine once in a while. Try to get yourself to only look at it once every other day. Then once a week. If you can do that you'll be fine. Also I don't know if your single or not but being in a relationship would help. [ AngelofMusic's advice column | Ask AngelofMusic A Question ]
Ix3u704 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 3:40 pm: stay away from your computer. try to get pre-occupied in your looks or something. anything different than that! say some prayers every night. [ Ix3u704's advice column | Ask Ix3u704 A Question ]
BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Sunday December 26 2004, 6:45 pm: Well since its bother you go and Block the sites yourseld, and then when the addiction comes it will take to long to get it and i bet u will jus give up on it, its good that ure Prooities are ure Friends, family and god. so that shows that you have the right state of mind, I bet it will pass soon, if not why not get a boyfeind those take up alot of time!! lol [ BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS's advice column | Ask BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS A Question ]
RachiE07 answered Sunday December 26 2004, 5:49 pm: you just need help period buddy. i don't kno why you get pleasure from that.. but ICK! girls just sell their bodies.. BLOCK THE FUCKIN' SITES YOURSELF.. DUH! NOT rocket science..
twynelyne answered Sunday December 26 2004, 1:17 am: is nice to hear your dedication to God and your family, i like that. okay lets see.......... whenever you want to remember that God is always watching you. WATCHING YOU. try to clear your mind and think of something more valuable for your time. you could be a genius by now if you put all the time to studying. rather than that, find a sport or friends to hang out with that your interested in. i wouldn't advise getting a gurl, b/c that can make things worse sometimes and you still lose your focus. just pray about it and distract yourself from it. soon it will no longer be a "necessity." [ twynelyne's advice column | Ask twynelyne A Question ]
zapreth answered Sunday December 26 2004, 12:24 am: As with any addiction, you need help to overcome your desires. Seek a therapist who specializes in sex related problems. You will be more comfortable knowing that you can tell someone about your problem and have the support of someone who TRUELY understands the pain of your addiction. Sexually based issues like porn addiction are very common, but so many people are too embarrassed by them to admit to the problem. I'm heartened that you have taken this first step in the healing process. (God, I sound so trite, but I'm being honest.) Your addiction will need professional assistance to overcome. There is no Niccorett for porn addiction. Don't feel ashamed that you need this help. Don't back away from reaching farther than the computer for your solution. And ignore the jerks who don't have enough compassion to realize how much courage even posting this question on an anonymous website took. Big hug, you're in my prayers! [ zapreth's advice column | Ask zapreth A Question ]
BeFABULOUSxo answered Saturday December 25 2004, 10:39 pm: did sumone already post sumthin almost identical to this? jus pray a lot and try to get a girlfriend so you can take your mind off of porn. unplug your comp. for a lil while *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated! [ BeFABULOUSxo's advice column | Ask BeFABULOUSxo A Question ]
danceonme answered Saturday December 25 2004, 8:39 pm: If you're really against it then I think you should make it hard to get to.
Delete it all off your computer, set up parental blocks, throw it away in a public trash can thats covered, and stay away.
Think of what is motivating you to make this change in your life and think about how you will be jepordizing it if you return to pornography. [ danceonme's advice column | Ask danceonme A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday December 25 2004, 8:34 pm: Well you could block those websites.. get a parental thingie on your comp. MERRY CHRISTMAHANUKWANSIKAH!!!!! / Merry christmas!! ((please rate)) Trix! [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
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