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Q: I really need some help. For the past almost 6 years of my life, i have been looking at porno. I am addicted. It is literally ruining my life. It takes time away from my hobbies, my family, and my relationship with God. Can someone please advise me on how to stop this addiction? Please dont ban this question either. I truely need help
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pray and ask God to help you get over the addiction. I am glad that you admit that it is an addiction. go and ask some leaders at your church to help you. You need copuncilling and support. also have lots of other stuff to do to get your mind off of it. e.g going out with your friends. pray heaps and God will Help you!!!! i am so happy you want to get out of the addiction because i am a girl and i think that porn is just as bad as hiring a slut.
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Q: I'm a 16 year old girl, and I don't shave my legs or armpits on any regular basis. I'll do them for special occassions or if I'm wearing a special outfit, but most of the time the hair just doesn't bother me so I don't bother removing it. I figure that it's my body, and my time and energy that I'm saving by not shaving, but sometimes I worry that guys won't be interested in me because of this and I've got to the age where I wish guys expressed more interest in me. Should I start shaving, or should I just wait for a guy who doesn't mind me being me?
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ewwww i always shave. it is not a matter of just being who u are, it is hygien and we just gotta do it without complaining. Sure its ok not to shave ya legs in winter when you are going to have youer legs and armpits covered but if you are going to expose them, then get rid of the hair! it turns everybody off! you dont have to shave everyday, if you dont want to, just shave every second or third day, but you have to shave your armpits everyday coz the hair there grows quicker and thicker than the hair on ya legs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Q: I think I'm depressed.. its like sometimes I can be really happy and have a positive outlook on life, and then other times I feel like my life is falling apart. I don't think I'm suicidal, but Im just afraid that someday i might be if i dont get help. I told my dad i wanted anti-depressents or therapy, but he said no cuz he doesnt believe me that im depressed. he just wont take me seriously. what should i do? what are some ways to be happy w/o anti depressents??
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go to the school councillor and talk to them about what you think. this way your dad wont know you got help. if they think you do have depression,mabey they can talk to your dad and convince him that you have it and maybe then you can get professional help. Depression is something you dont want to mess with because it will get worse until you decide to do something about it and maybe get professional help. Trust me I KNOW!!!!
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Q: I really want to change my religion, I am a Roman Catholic I just don't believe in their thoughs and such. I am not sure what I want to be. Does any oen have any past experience? Is it like a legal thing if you want to change religions; like you have to get papers? Any help or comments or info about other religions would be greatly appreiciated!
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hey honey, there is no such things as signing papers to believe in another religion. I am proud to be a christian! When you are a christian God is always there for you. He is not a hinderence and judgementle like many people think he is, he is careing and guides you throughout your life. You have the freedom of controlling your own life, God is there for when u need him. He is awsome and always listens to you when you pray to him and has a personal relationship with you. THere is no catch at all. You do not need to please him by giving him offerings, instead, God is the one who tries to please you. God loved us so much that he sent his only son, Jesus on Earth to died so that we can go to heaven to be with him when we die. Jesus died and became alive again and acended up into heaven to be with God. I love being a christian coz they arent strict like catholics and other religions.if you want to become one, all you have to do is pray to God and ask him to be in your life. It is that simple! if you dont know how to do it, go to someone who is a chr3istian and ask them to help you come to Christ. either that or you could go to a church and usually after the sevice the paster asks if anybody wants to become a christian. they help you accept God into your life. Hopefully you would become attracted to his onderful religion and experince Gods unconditional love like i do.
luv ya xoxo
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Q: There is this girl that when I see her face
She takes me away to that special place, and she just means soo much to me. The thing is she doesnt really live near me and stuff, and where i live i dont really have the greatest life, i have no friends and am always lonely if im not working and i get very very suicidal (SP) and its happened before and i dont want to hurt her and stuff,and all i want is to be with her but i have to finish school and i got an apprentaceship after school and stuff but you know i dont want to spend my life suffering like this with no one to do stuff with and nothing to do and be lonely cause it sucks, help please
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awww you are special and apear to be very sweet. i can always be your friend. keep in contact with me. my email is NEAVEL@student.kcc.wa.edu.au anyway,tell her that she looks very pretty today and compliment her. THAT ALWAYS WORKS! i always feel special when i am complimented. just be yourself around her coz nobody likes somebody who is fake. always smile at her and se if she smiles back coz smiles are contagious and cheer people up. talk to her more and get to know her. if you are confident enough, ask her what movie she is looking forward to seeing and suggest if she wants to see it with you. if she become suspicious and asks why, tell her that you have no-one to go with and dont want to see it by yourself coz it is boring when there is nobody to discuss the movie with afterwards.
what you wrote about being suicidal is very serious. go and get some profetional hel NOW! you might be experience depression and can get over it with help. Trust me. I know what that feels like coz i used to have depression myself. GO and see if the doctor can prescribe you some antidepresents coz they make you feel a lot happier and normal. you are importantit it hurts me that you are feeling that wsy! get help. trust me, u wont regret it! join some club sports club where you can meetr people and make friends. i will become ya friend if no-one else will! you are a sweet person and deserve to enjoy yourself!
luv ya xox
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Q: Theres this guy i like ( im not going out wtih ) and were pretty good friends. He said he liked me last week but he doesnt talk to me anymore that much. I dont talk to him a lot at school cuz hes not in any of my classes but i see him between classes. I really want to hang out with him and stuff like that but i dont know what to do. What can i do to get him to notice me more??
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act the way you usually are. you do not have to change the way u behave to get him to notice u. he should like you for who you are. if he doesnt, then he is the one missing out. dont worry about him. you will eventually get over it.
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Q: well i was given advice to get a g/f, i should go to like the mall or a public place and ask them out soemhow. well, how do u do this? it seems a bit like they might thnk im some kind of a perv. haha. well just to say, how do you start a coversation without freaking them out?
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well, i think that is not a great way to get a gf. you dont know anything about them! what if they already have a boyfriend? that would dissapoint u! The best way of getting to know a girl outside of school is to join some mixed sports club or something else like that. for starters, that would give ya a topic to start off with. Get to know a girl there and ask her what she is up to on the weekend.if she is doing nuthing, ask her if she wants to hang out with ya and some mates somewhere, mabey find out where she likes going and suggest going there. hope this advice answers your question. i am a girl so what i wrote is from my perspective. good luck and tell me if it works!
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Hey everybody. I am here to answer your questions.
Every one of you are special and deserve the best. I love you all!!!
umm about myself, i am a tennager and i just love life. i hate alcohol, drugs and cigarettes i go to school and i it. i like spending my time shopping. the best talent that i have is going bargain hunting, coz i find stuff cheap that my friends would pay lots of $$$ for.hehehe.
anyway i try to be the best person that i can be and i think that everybody should do that to!!!!
HAVE A GREAT LIFE EVERYBODY XOXOXOXO
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Australia AND PROUD OF BEING AN AUSSIE! Occupation: SKOOL I AM IN YR 12 Age: 17 Member Since: February 14, 2005 Answers: 7 Last Update: February 24, 2005 Visitors: 2202
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