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Q: i think im having life issues with girls...i cant help but wonder if i think im a lesbian i think about guys but i think about the girls the same way...can you help me?
well first of all that wouldnt make you a lez thatd make you bi but it could juss be a phase your going through..everyone does that at some point in life so dont worry bout it... unless like you feel that way for yrs then u gotta problem....but it sounds like nothing big to me...so dont worry!
have a great day!
~*SaRaH*~

Q: Hi. One of my guy friends like me, but I don't like him back. He's a really great guy, but I want to stay just friends. I worry now that he'll get the wrong impression if I wanna go hang out with him. How can I let him know that I want to remain just friends, without making the friendship akward?
sorry it took me so long to reply im grounded for 6 wks well like 3 now but still im sneaking on right now...anyways so um how do you know he likes you? did he tell you? if not then um calm down b/c he might not think of you that way haha but if he has told you.. juss like point out what a great friend he is and try not to like totally flirt with him (its hard i know) and you can hang out with him its not a big deal...but id invited more people so that he doesnt get the wrong impression and like if you have to... find a bf i mean it would prolly make him feel kinda akward at first but like if he is your friend..even if he likes you he would respect you and eventually probably stop having a crush on you. and like go out with other friends juss as much as you do him...if not more so that he doesnt think you like him too. and like if all else fail juss tell him straight up...that hes an awesome friend and that if yall did have a relationship that it could tear yall apart...or somethin like that... if you need more help u can IM me at WhiTiETiGhTiEz69 good luck!
~*SaRaH JaNe*~

Q: there's a guy at school that i really like, but he thinks of me as a little sister. i want to tell him, but i'd hate to ruin our friendship! i've done that once before, and i don't want to do it again! so what do i do: tell him, or hold it in and hope it goes away? (btw, i'm 14 and go to mhs)
well if i were you i would just tell him... because he could like you too but think you dont feel the same way so he could be holding it in and throwing you off and makin you think he doesnt like you like that and if your who i think you are definitly just tell him hes a very understanding guy but if ur not who i think you are then juss tell him anyways haha b/c "hearts are often broke by words let unspoken" and my what ive learned wit relationships..even if he doesnt like you like that its cool... juss dont make it seem different around yall if he doesnt like you like that...juss act how you normally do and nothing will change and maybe eventually if he doesnt already then he'll start to like you. i hope i helped atleast a lil' bit. good luck!
~*SaRaH *~

P.S. i just thought about it and i thought well you could be the person i think you are but the guy im thinkin of may not be the one your talkin about haha random thought sorry oh and if you decided to go with what i said id love to see how it turns out for you! hopefully good.

Q: My 8th grade graduation is coming up in May and i need to know some appropriate songs to sign cuz i have a good voice and i want to pick a song to sing thats right for the occasion! Can someone give me some suggestions in a list? It should be slow im guessing ..thanks in advance!!
oh a good gradution song is by vitamin c....its called graduation song haha...its really good and not too fast... good luck!
~*SaRaH*~
p.s. if you wanna hear it you can go to launch.yahoo.com and just search for "vitamin c" and find that song

Q: Ok well i have this really really hot boyfriend and his hottness cannot compare to me. And plus it seems he doesnt really want to get in a big relationgship, and he wants to be more of a friend. WHat shood I do?
well you could just easily do what i do...try to become really good friends with him...and usually in the end they start to like you..i know this prolly isnt what you wanna hear but its the truth.. love takes time..and have you ever tried to talk to him about this? even like jokingly (or atleast pretend for it to be a joke)....well hope i helped atleast a lil!
bye!

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