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I am a 16 year old female. I've been dating this guy, Jared for the past 2 years on and off. While me and Jared were broken up I started dating this other guy, Seth whom I dated for like 6 months. Its been like 8 or 9 months since me and seth were together. We had a really serious, deep conversation about us (this happened like 2 months ago.) and he told me that he loved me. He really meant it. I could tell. But at the time I was still with Jared. And I knew, deep down that I still had feelings for Seth, but I didn't want to admit it. I wanted to stay completely loyal to Jared, and that I did. But just recently I started feeling neglected by Jared. Like, he barely calls anymore. He's always hanging out with his friends. And I've started thinking about Seth a lot. Seth is a really great guy. And I know that I love him. I've always loved him. But I'm still with Jared, and I know I'd regret leaving Jared, if I decided to. What should I do about the whole situation? Seth doesn't know how I feel about him. Should I tell him? What should I do??????????????????? (link)
all i have to say is to follow your heart. ask your heart what choice you should make.


I give up. I dont deserve gods love. I am not worthy enough for it. He gives me a gift and i dont use it. I fail one class, i am a porn addict. I give up i dont deserve god anymore. I dont even deserve to live, i, i really dont care. i am not good enough. I am not as loyal to him as i should be. i dont deserve him at all. im done. Please give advice or a way to end it all (link)
YOUR RIGHT!!!!we don't deserve God's love but he offered it to us. he is always there for you to comfort you, to guide you, to pick you up when you fall, to encourage you, to carry you through the hard times, and to LOVE YOU! in
1 Corinthians 1:13 THERE HATH NO TEMPTATION TAKEN YOU BUT SUCH AS IS COMMON TO MAN: BUT GOD IS FAITHFUL, WHO WILL NOT SUFFER YOU TO BE TEMPTED ABOVE THAT YE ARE ABLE; BUT WILL WITH THE TEMPTATION ALSO MAKE A WAY TO ESCAPE, THAT YE MAY BE ABLE TO BEAR IT. God loves you no matter what you are going to do. He is always there to forgive when others are not. i'll be praying for you. email me for any questions @ farmchick90210@hotmail.com.


Lately I've been getting headaches and when I close my eyes trying to get them to go away, I see things. Like there's some kind of movie playing on my eyelids. I saw my friend failing her history test and it actually happened word for word. I tried to talk to my friend about it and she thought I was joking around. I'm really scared. I don't want to be a freak. The headaches keep coming and I keep seeing things and I want it to stop.

What should I do and does this happen to anybody else?

Freaked out Psychic? (link)
maybe it is a gift from God. try to control it the best way you can. use it to help people instead of bothering you.


First, let me preface this by saying that this is going to a bit long and that I'm not highly religious. I always believed that if you lived your life morally and right, God or the cosmos or what have you, would reward you in a way. You would be able to affect people's lives by the way that you live.

So I've lived my life well- I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, engage in pre-marital sex, am always kind, and work hard helping others, however, I'm losing my faith that its all meaningful. It seems to me that people in general are becoming too superficial. There is no more great search for knowledge and truth and TRUE beuty. People don't trust people anymore- always thinking the worst ulterior motive, even when there is none. I feel like I'm fighting a dying battle to keep a little bit of innocence and purity. Am I just being naive thinking that if I keep living my life the way I am, will "reward" me in the end? Am I the only one who feels like this? Am I the only one who thinks that we're not progressing but rather giving in to our most carnal urges? I'm losing faith and I know eventually all the people I help will feel it by the way I treat them. Your input would be appreciated. (link)
i'm a christian. and i believe everything the bible says. there is going to be a judgement day in the end. read if you want matthew chap. 24. Jesus is coming back. it says in the bible that you have to be born again(or saved) to enter the kingdom of Heaven. that means you have to honestly ask God to forgive you for your sins. everybody sins everyday no matter what they do. but God is always there to forgive you. have you watched the Passion of the Christ? it probably would a good way to explain what Jesus did for all of us. any questions email me @ farmchick90210@hotmail.com.


I really want to change my religion, I am a Roman Catholic I just don't believe in their thoughs and such. I am not sure what I want to be. Does any oen have any past experience? Is it like a legal thing if you want to change religions; like you have to get papers? Any help or comments or info about other religions would be greatly appreiciated! (link)
i'm a christain. and i think that God won't condemn you for changing your religion. as long it is what God wants you to do. email me for any questions @ farmchick90210@hotmail.com.


Hey everyone..I'm 13, 5"4, and 135 lbs. I'm athletic, i'm really into softball and i'm a cheerleader. ALL of my friends try so hard to tell me all the time that i'm not fat. I know I may not be FAT, but i'm most definitely not skinny, or close to it. My stomach sticks out about 3 inches more than i'd like it to. Everything else about me is fine, but my stomach is stopping me from wanting to have a boyfriend, stopping me from being confident, and basically taking over my life because it always causes me to be in a bad mood. I'm not one of those people that want to be deadly skinny. I honestly am overweight, although my BMI is average. I've tried diets but they usually only last about a few weeks, a month tops. I excercise whenever i can which isnt frequent, but NOTHING seems to help. Im going on vacation in April and I would really like to have lost a lot of weight, well, just inches i suppose. I don't have trouble getting boyfriends but the problem is im always scared that they dont like me or wont if they realized that im not as skinny as everyone else. When i dress myself, i dont wear wicked tight clothes, or slutty crap. I look good but not as good as i could look if i was skinnier. If ANYONE has any advice as to what i could do, i would TRULY appreciate it. I can sometimes be very committed to diets but not as much as i could be. I need something that i can easily do to get rid of some inches by april, or sooner. I dont realy have money or rides to go to the gym, so i have to work with whatever i can do at home. I jog too, but that doesnt really help me. I would honestly be the happiest person alive if i was skinnier, and i mean that. Please, help me out guys. p.s-sorry this is so long. (link)
i have this friend and she lost a lot of weight. this is what she did: 1.she ate 3 meals a day
2.didn't eat between meals
3.stop drinking pop
i was just talking to her about it today and she said at first it was hard (about not eating as much) but then after awhile she got used to it. i hoped i helped you and if you any questions to ask my friend email me @ farmchick90210@hotmail.com


hi, sometimes im selfish..okay, im always selfish. for example if i get an awesome necklace/shirt/pants/earrings/cd/anything::when peoeple ask me where i got them from i never want to tell!! i dont want people coping off me a iguess but it happens so much! and even the stuff i make, okay well i made a necklace out of a guitar pick and then everyone did the same things...etc. it makes me mad! also when i do homework im the same way, i hate when poeple copy me! and my friend, she copies my essays and uses like the same things i do and i take a long time thinking of them, just like a simple sentence. im christian and i know i shouldnt be like this, but i dont know why i am! how can i cure my selfishness??! i wanna be a better person, help me please~~~~!!!!!!! (link)
it sounds like to me that everyone thinks everything you do is the best way they should go. they look up to you and they follow you. maybe you should be a light to them and show them the right way to go, to God. pray to God and ask him for some help to show them the right way to go.


I'm a 15 year old girl, who's confident and a sweet person. I feel really satisfied with my life.. I have decent grades, the best friends a girl could ask for, and a great home life. I have an empty feeling inside me though, because I don't have a boyfriend or even a crush. I haven't met anyone that's met up to my standards (which is basically funny, romantic, & polite) All the guys in my grade are either obnoxious and shallow jerks, or else gay. Any suggestions on where to meet guys? (link)
Maybe it's not a guy you need right now. Have you tried talking to God? I know he has all the answers. Try praying to him, he's always there for you.




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