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Still looking for Mr. Right
I'm a 15 year old girl, who's confident and a sweet person. I feel really satisfied with my life.. I have decent grades, the best friends a girl could ask for, and a great home life. I have an empty feeling inside me though, because I don't have a boyfriend or even a crush. I haven't met anyone that's met up to my standards (which is basically funny, romantic, & polite) All the guys in my grade are either obnoxious and shallow jerks, or else gay. Any suggestions on where to meet guys?
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Maybe it's not a guy you need right now. Have you tried talking to God? I know he has all the answers. Try praying to him, he's always there for you.
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There is no place to meet a guy, they just come unexpectedly and you fall in love with them without even knowing it. The best way for you to do is to just wait and your "Mr. Right" will come. Love takes time and you are young so you have a long time ahead of you. You could sign up for clubs and other activities in your town and you can meet guys that way. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Try talking to guys at school or church. Hope my advice helps!
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just try to meet new people at your school. not everyone could be that bad. i know it mite be hard to find someone but itll happen eventually. just look around and theres always that few guys that you've never noticed before. go and say hi to them. its always worth a try! hope i helped ~jj~
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A great many guys your age are either (as you said) shallow jerks or just don't care about girls yet, that's why I'm upset that there's so much pressure on girls your age to date. It's just not practical.
Now's a good time to just try to be friends with guys at your school and try to rise above the petty boyfriend-needing fads. So many girls just want a boyfriend so they can say they have one, not because they actually like the guy, that they're willing to settle for an unhealthy relationship. When you're 18 and go to college, the world will be dramatically different and guys will just fall into your lap. Until then, be cool with not having a boyfriend. You'll be a much stronger woman because of it.
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im not sure, if its really bothering you that much write that youre single in your profile and tell your friends youre looking for a guy. if you wanna follow my advice i recomend being exceedingly happy that youre fortunate as to having intelligence, best friends, and most importantly a home life. a Good one in fact. youre living the life that so many poeple want it is so unblieveable. there are so many people that would do almost anything for what you have now, so just be appreciative of what you have. maybe you can go to the mall, cafe shops, and where bands play, there seems to be a lot of guys there. good luck!
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i say, dont go out lookin for love, if it was meant to happin, it would have, and if it hasnt yet, just keep on doing what your doing. and besides, your special someone might just be right in front of you and you dont even know it.....
-chaos-
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Hey thats the same thing in my grade there all dorks and shallow. Go to a sports game thats a different school district then urs. Bring a friend with you. There will probably be some guys in the stands rooting for there team.Or go for a guy thats a grade above you! Good Luck.
~Brina~
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don`t worry about it. don`t go looking for love. it`ll sneak up on you. you`re only 15, so you have plenty of time. trust me. have fun being young and don`t look for someone to be with. most importantly don`t settle. don`t compromise. you`ll find the right guy.. actually he`ll find you.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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Most guys our age are shallow and only want sex. But I think if your just patient, the right guy will come into your life. I've heard many times people that were trying to get boyfriends didnt have any luck until they stopped worrying about it. Just be patient, and if you ever start to crush on the guy...then hang out with him a lot before you go out. So you could see if hes a "shallow jerk" or something. I would stick to your age range 15-17. Nothing over that. But where you could meet guys? Teen dance clubs, and partys for sure! Somehow your future boyfriend will come into your life...so be patient. I promise it will happen!
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