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Please, Please help me...
I am a 16 year old female. I've been dating this guy, Jared for the past 2 years on and off. While me and Jared were broken up I started dating this other guy, Seth whom I dated for like 6 months. Its been like 8 or 9 months since me and seth were together. We had a really serious, deep conversation about us (this happened like 2 months ago.) and he told me that he loved me. He really meant it. I could tell. But at the time I was still with Jared. And I knew, deep down that I still had feelings for Seth, but I didn't want to admit it. I wanted to stay completely loyal to Jared, and that I did. But just recently I started feeling neglected by Jared. Like, he barely calls anymore. He's always hanging out with his friends. And I've started thinking about Seth a lot. Seth is a really great guy. And I know that I love him. I've always loved him. But I'm still with Jared, and I know I'd regret leaving Jared, if I decided to. What should I do about the whole situation? Seth doesn't know how I feel about him. Should I tell him? What should I do???????????????????
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If jared is starting to neglect you then you need to get rid of him cuz he obviously doesnt care that much about you ne more. And you realli need to tell seth.
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well im kind of in the same situation except i would be Seth. you should tell him how you feel. even though you dont want to if Jared is ignoring you and spending all his time wit his friends you should maybe get back wit Seth. or atleast start talkin again. if you really love Seth then thats who you should be wit. dont let Jared think errything is fine bewteen you when its not.
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just a word of advice: a guy will always cheat on you every chance he gets but why dont you try communicating with jared.. why does he always have to call you.. you got hands, use them
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NOt calling, not interacting, that's not a sign of love. Seth, if he treats you well, go for him . Jarad might need sometime, but think to yourself..Would you like someone who never call and or never makes you laugh. NO!! I wouldn't so go for seth.
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If you are feeling unwanted be Jared, since he always is hanging out with his friends and he never calls you anymore, you should break up with him and start a relationship with Seth, since you two have feelings for each other that are deep. Talk to Jared and tell him how you feel before you break up with him. Once you are over Jared, you should definitely talk to Seth and tell him how you feel about him. It sounds like things between you and Seth would work out great, since he is a great guy and that he talks to you. Good luck!
-Karen
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You need to think of what is best for you #1, and #2 is what your heart says to do. If you reach into your heart it will tell you the answer. This does sound like a really hard situation but since you have so much feelings for Seth than you could move on from Jared and he happy with Seth. The only true answer is how You feel, but i wish you lots of luck and don't play both of them, but try to stay friends with the other one, and just devote your love to one of them (preferbly seth because you love him a lot) and maybe let jared down easy. Explain the whole thing to Seth too. But i wish you the best of luck and i hope i helped :)
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all i have to say is to follow your heart. ask your heart what choice you should make.
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Girl you need to move on cause if that jared guy isnt giving you much attention than I think that you should leave him. And if Seth really likes you than I think that you shouldnt miss an opportunity like that. yes you should tell him that way he will have another reason to love you even more..Well hope I was able to help.
*poopie pants girly
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You should be more loyal to your love. If you have a boyfriend, then love him and dont think about other guys. If you have a problem or feel neglected then talk with him and try to solve the problems together.
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