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well i had sex with some guy .. but no just some guy i dated him for three years on n off .. you could say he was my first love in fact he was my first everything .. we still have a thing for eachother .. so a couple weeks ago we had sex n didn't use a condom cus he likes it better but he pulled out before he busted at least i hope .. well the problem is i was supposed to have my period like prolly bout a week ago .. i am soo scared i don't no what to do .. n if i was pregnat i would never be able to look my mom or dad in the face again cus i would have let them down .. could you give advice maybe .. THANKs
oh yeh i am 15 female thanks =\
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If you have a cousin that's a girl or an older sister you can trust, ask them to get you a pregnancy test. take the test, and if you ARE pregnant, tell the guy and then your parents.
They will be dissappointed for a little while, but it will eventually go away.
There are 2 options -- keep the baby, or put it up for adoption. ABORTION = NO!!!!! Your killing the baby that way. if you keep it, or put it up for adoption, it can have a good life with you or another family. whatever one you think is best. it is a very long emotional train tho.
I'm 15 as well -- my OLDER sister is 19 and has a 6 - 7 month old baby girl named Neveah. My sister was 18 when she got pregnant and 19 when she had her. The baby was born 6-6-04, my older sister was born 6-4-85, and i was born 6-2-89. So that right there is unique.
Try not to sweat it. They may be dissapointed, and then again they may not. Try to prepare yourself for the worst tho, cuz then you won't be so shocked or whatever. Your young true, and have your whole life ahead of you. But these things happen everyday
Everyone's parents have different veiws. When and If your parents get a grandchild to love and cherrish -- that is when you decide if you made the right decision. Of course, if you are pregnant and you keep the baby - it's by by partying..... =/.. but that can be a good thing. if your pregnant, i'm sure you'll be a GREAT mom!!!
Hope i helped...
if you need anything else
let me kno!!
<3 * RachiE * <3
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