so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 and a half months. just recently, hockey season got over and he was free to do whatever he wanted .. well he always used to get high and drink and stuff and i'm seriously not into that ... he is like ditching me for his friends to go get high with them .. i've tried talking to him about it but he doesn't understand the way it makes me feel .. he's told me stories about him going to parties and getting high then these girls walk around with their shirts off and stuff .. am i suppose to like that or what? because i don't and its starting to really bug me .. he's always like just come with me but i hate seeing him high and fucked up because he doesn't pay attention to me. again he doesn't understand and i just don't know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? RachiE07 answered Friday March 11 2005, 3:39 pm: weLL.
since your not into that, don't go obviously. LoL. no really, this is serious
Since he doesn't understand, sit down and talk with him more. cuz once he understands, maybe he'll stop.
he shouldn't be ditching you to get drunk and high. it's a bad combo, and plus, if he is playing hockey normally, what the fuck is he doin?
I realize that this is his hockey time out, but wtf!! seriously.
Um, when he starts talking about that shtuff, just ignore him or change the subject. i would have dumped him by now to be perfectly honest.
if he isn't going to respect you and your wishes, then you shouldn't be with him.
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