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Boyfriend issues..
My boyfriend recently told me I was acting alot different and not being myself. I can see why he says that because I have been thinking about taking a break with him and I have SO much on my mind.
Tonight on the phone he kept saying he loved me and he never wanted to lose me AND our 8 month anniversary is this Saturday. Should I wait to call it off between us until after this Saturday or what?
I REALLY NEED THE ADVICE!!
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omg well that happend to me.. only it was longer than 8 months.. i was thinking about a break bcuz we were going out for so long and now he goes out with someone else and i miss him so much and im like heartbroken and like the couple thang is gone between both of us now and we are just friends..
well what im trying to say is that i thought the same thing and then i lost something so good and i took advantage of it and once it was gone it was like i wanted to die and i wasnt happy anymore.. hope i helped :-)
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Hey girl! You really seem like a generous person to be thinking about his feelings a lot :-). But, sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do if you really truely feel you have to do that. But, another thing, for everything that's on your mind...talk to HIM about it..maybe he can help with a thing or two. Boyfriends are supposed to be best friends as well. Before breaking any thing off...tell him everything about what's going on in your life. Not about him, but about everything else and see how he reacts. If he helps you out, you may have second thoughts about breaking anything off between you and him. Just try talking to him first. Please. It could end up an extremely good result for both you and him. Let me know how things go! I hope I helped you out somehow! Please, if you have anymore questions, I'm here! :-) :-) Remember sweets, everything happens for a reason. Do you really feel that you need to break it off with your boyfriend? :-) Keep me updated girlee! I'm always here to talk!
<3 Brittany <3
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tell him exactley wats goin on.... if he really loves u hell understand and wait for u.... and if u keep it goin itll be that much harder to break it off wit him.... hope i helped
Tommy
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I Think this is definitely your choice and you shouldn't care so much about his feelings* u may love him, u may not. But if u need the break, u need to tell him- But be careful- Let him know it's jus a break and not forever if that is the case- Becuz he may think that you will hurt him again in the future and he may not want to take the chance of his heart broken! <3 Angi*
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Follow your heart, but if your having ANY doubts at all then you should let him know BEFORE your anniversary how you feel and that you dont wana go any further into the relationship and that you need time to yourself to sort out your feelings. If you wait after then you'll only be making the situation worse by misleading him. ~KiSsEs~
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hey gurl- i think you should brake it off before-because if you do it after he'll think that you didnt want him to feel bad- but let him know that you dont wana go any further into the relationship and that you need time of not being with him.. hopefully that will help! good luck gurl!
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Don't wait!If you really feel like you don't want to be with him than you should break up with him before.I mean think of it this way.I don't know if he's a big gift giver or not but....if he is and he gives you something like a piece of jewelery or some thing really big.....you might feel kind of bad then it will be harder to break up with him.Just remember to go with what your heart says.
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I Would Listen To Your Heart. If Your Confused About The Relationship, I Would Take A Small Break. Not To Long Tho, Just Time To Think, Breathe, And Maybe Talk To Eachother About What's On Your Minds.
Let Me Kno How It Goes!!
<3 RachiE
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if you wait the damage will just be worse believe me, i kno.so tell him as soon as you can and apologize profusely!make sure you tell it to him easily and dont be hard on him. he'll prolly be obset for a while so give him some time to absorb what you say. but when you see him still say hi and stuff even if he is mean to you.
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i think you should deff. tell him whats goin on!!! waiting will jsut make it worse!! you should let him know how your feeling, talk to him about it!! don't make it too sudden like "i want to break upp" something like "yoo we really should talk about us" tell him everything SPILL YOUR GUTS hehe!! good luck with itt!! hope you make the right choice and everything turns out how you want it!!! :)))!! <3 liiza!
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No you should not wait. if you want to call it quits with this guy, then get it over with already, don't beat around the bush. If you just wait til the 8th month aniversary thing, it might actually hurt him more and make you look bad. Good Luck! :)
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Don't wait, because then you will feel worse and worse about it then feel normal about feeling bad and end up dating him for years. Just tell him how you feel. Yeah, he's gonna feel heartbroken, but it's either this or you will eventually marry a dude who you never even liked (maybe that's exaderating) but seriously, say something.
LYLAS
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