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I know it's normal for teens esp. girls to go through this phase when they try on a million outfits just to go to the grocery and end up with something they started with 10 outfits ago. Today I had to go to the mall which is important but... I ran up n down the house half naked looking for clothes...n there's so much and I picked some and then 2 minutes later I don't use it and I use some other one! What to do what to do...n then wen i get something it's so simple and I realize I'm tired! Gosh what to do n how to stop this? How do i decide what to wear without tryin sooo many outfits? (link)
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Try putting all your clothes in sets - one pair of pants with a shirt that looks good with it - that way they'll be ready for you, and all you have to do is pull them off the hanger, put them off, and run off to the mall, or wherever. It takes out all the stress of having to find an outfit. Also, if the shirt/pants dont fit your mood, swap it with another one. If you do it like that, it should take less than 5-10 minutes to get ready in the morning -clothing wise.. yeah, some girls take forever with makeup, so i'm not counting makeup time.. :P Hope this helps, and good luck!
Liz
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ugh ok well i really like this kid hes really cute everyone wants him and all that well im good friends with his ex gf and they are like best friends so the other day he told her that he knew i like him and it was so obvious and he thought i was really cute but like i cant just talk to him she wants me to go to the movies with him but like i dont know how to talk to him i need soem convo starters and not oh act like hes your bff or talk about sports school music uh. no this is the real world honestly who does that so can some one pleaase give me advice! (link)
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I'm just going to give you a site, though it goes along with what xomegeroni(sp?) wrote.. here ya' go:
http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html
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I technically can't "date" until I turn 16. I've had boyfriends before but not ones you actually go on single dates with and things like that. My parents are okay with that kind of thing, but what if a guy actually asks me out? What should I do then? Thanks! (link)
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Try seeing if your parents will let you go on a double date. My parents are similar, and don't want me to go alone on a date for a while, but if I have some friends nearby it's fine. If your mom/dad give in, talk to your friends and tell them how important it is to you, and that you will pay them back somehow later. .like an IOU
Hope that helps,
Liz
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does anyone know were I can get a free web page? like i can totaly design it and every thing. but dont say maxpages, i tried it, and its not very good, ill rate! =D (link)
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hmm. You can try Freewebs.com, or Angelfire.com (haven't tried that one yet, just heard of it), and...well, xanga.com - but that's kinda like a diary type of thing. Doesn't mean you can't make it into a website. Hope that helped some,
Liz
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I have no idea what to do my moms birthday is coming up and she loves and collects Presious Moments and i really wanted to get her a nice present for her birthday and the presious moment i wanted to get her was 45$ and it was beautiful And like i am really broke rite now and i am young and thats a nice gift when you are as young as i am but i was like what ever my moms worth it so i told her that i found a birth day prsent for her and i was going to go back to the mall to buy it for her and she was bugging me to tell her what it was and i said no and today My Mom took me+my friend to the mall and My friend and me went to Hollister and i didnt know but she went to this store that she likes and spent $80 on Jeans and a shirt and she was like well you can give me these jeans for my birthday and i was like i already figured out what i wanted to buy you for your birhtday and ahe was like you should give me the money because that the pants are more practical and that made me mad that she bought that because we are kinda like in a bad situation with money and she asked me to buy her that and like it got me mad because she didnt even ask me first ahe bought them and just excpectedd i would give her the money you kno and then we got into this huge argument about about that i was a spoiled brat and what ever! and she told me to take the money and shove it up my ass so what should i not give her anything or should i do should i give her the money for the pants or should i buy her the presious moment? i would tell her i was sorry but i am not so i cant give an aplogy and less its sincere becaus i didnt do anything wrong!
Please help me
please help me (link)
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If I were you, I wouldn't bring up the situation untill her birthday. When she opens your present, you can then explain to her why you didn't want to get her the jeans. I'm sure she'll understand.
As for getting money for it, try helping neighbors, look around for spare change, and possibly get some jobs nearby. Hope that helps a little bit..
Liz
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what shoudl i get my boi for valentines day?
he likes hockey and music
doent like chocolate
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I know what I'm going to get him, and he's /very/ hard to shop for. What I'm doing is I'm going to buy tickets to a movie he /reaally/ wants to see, then I'm going to put it in a v-day balloon and blow it up. I'm also going to get him a card, and possibly a poem.. but that's most likely won't happen cause i can't write poems.. :P
Hope that helps,
Liz
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I know this is kind of stupid, but here it goes anyways.
I'm deathly afriad of shots! and i have to get one for high school in April or around then porbably sooner.
I'm terrified and i don't know how to get over this fear. I'll probably start to cry at the office.
Please help
5 unless your mean
thanks!
shot scaredy (link)
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I know how You feel. i'm TERRIFIED of shots.. But I had to get one in order to help out at one of the nursing homes with my friends. All you do is look away when they are filling it or something. Just keep yourself distracted, and whatever you do, don't look at the needle (before or after). Next thing, don't let them tell you when you're going to get it. You won't even feel it if you don't know it's coming. Like, when I got my shot, it actually came out before they were finished putting the antibiotics in, and yet, I didn't feel a thing because I wasn't watching. Just keep distracted and it won't hurt.
Hope that helps,
Liz
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My friend has being going out with her boyfriend for two years now - she's just turned 16 and he's just turned 18. They've always got on really well, and he's always been a really good boyfriend, but lately he's been pressuring her for sex.
She's really not comfortable with this and is happy to carry on as before, but he's been saying how selfish she is.
He also spoke to one of his girl mates about it (someone my friend doesn't even KNOW), and this girls said very nasty things about her.
How can I help my friend? What should she do? (link)
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I can udnerstand that - i mean, it's been 2 years. But if she's not comfortable with it, he needs to respect that. I think it's great that she's not going through with it, and that she's waiting. I myself am doing that. Just tell her that the best gift she can give her husband is her virginity and loyalty. If he keeps going on about it, she needs to dump him. No one should have to be pressured into something like that.
As for the girl, I think your friend needs to just ignore her. If it gets worse than verbal abuse, she needs to talk to someone, or possibly the girl herself and ask her what the big deal was? Maybe she's jealous? Or maybe she thinks that if he has sex with her (your friend), then he'll dump her (your friend) and go out with her (the girl). Hope that helps some,
Liz
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at least once a month, I get migraine(sp?) headaches. I dont know what causes them, but I cant take any medication for them because I dont like swallowing pills. I have never done it in my life and whenever I try i feel as if I am choking and almost throw up. Are there any migraine medications I can take where I dont have to swallow a pill? If not, is there any way I can get myself to swallow a pill without vomiting? thanks ♥ (link)
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Well, it depends on your age. You could probably find some chewable medicines somewhere, Don't know how much that would help though. Sorry if I didn't help much..
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I had those little rhinestones that you can get from Claire's on my cell phone. Well they started to get old so I tried to peel them all off.
Now the sticky glue stuff that held them on is all over the back of my phone and I can't get it off. I've tried several different things but nothing can get the glue off. Do any of you know how to get it off? Please help, my cell phone looks disgusting noww! (link)
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I agree with the others. Nail polish remover works like a charm.
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I am 13 and my sister is 28, married and has 1 child. She is very clean, doesn't drink, doesn't smoke (Anymore). But she is depressed. She is in debt, and her husband is never home because of his job. He is a truck driver, so it's usually her and her baby which is 2 years old.
Every week that her husbands not home I have to go spend the night with her. It feels like a second home. One night, not to long ago, I went to her house to spend the night (of course) and she was crying. I asked her why and she started to tell me but didn't and I took it as if she was depressed or that she was alone and afraid because I wasn't there.
People have tried to steal things from her and her husband many times. Her neightbor thinks they sell drugs and take the money to buy all of the things she has. Which isn't true of course. She's in debt. My sister and I have never argued. I like to make her laugh because it makes me feel good that she can accually have fun.
Another thing is her weight. She's shorter than me and she is a little chubby. Everytime she see's herself in old photos she says she wishes she could look like that. One night I didn't want to spend the night with her and my mom made me go. The next day I found out that she was crying because she thought that I wasn't comming out. I really don't know what to do anymore. Can anyone offer any help? (link)
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Why don't you talk to your mom about taking her out on a girl's night out? You could stay at a hotel, do plenty of 'girl' activities, and things like that. Take plenty of pictures and give her some, so she knows that she's fine just the way she is, and she doesn't have to change into the perfect person all the magazine's are showing. Maybe you're mom could watch her kid? That might help lighten the mood, and let her share some great memories with you on your own night out...
hope that helps a little..
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I am racially Jewish.
As far as my faith goes? I'm not quite sure. I was raised thinking Jesus is the true Messiah, not not worshiping him, per say. My father's side of the family has a lot of Jewish traditions woven in with Catholic ones.
I think Christians worship Jesus INSTEAD of God, and I don't think that's right.
I DO NOT want to be a Jew for Jesus. I'm sorry, I'm not praying in a highschool gym. Its not going to happen. I've prayed in both churches and synagogues, because I just say, "Hey, its the same God, right?"
But the way of worshiping Him is quite different. I have no idea who I am, where I fit, or where I should go to pray. (link)
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Ok, as a christian, i'll give you my view from how I was raised. Maybe it'll help, maybe it won't...But I'll try.
Ok, I believe that Jesus is God's son, and that in order to get to God, you have to go through him. So he's a bit like an interpretur (sp?). Which means you can pray to him, and you'll still be praying to God - which brings me to something else. We also believe in the trinity - 3 in 1 - thing. you know, where God, Jesus, and The Holy Spirit are all the same, but in diff. forms. So, back to the prayer. We also believe that God isn't that picky. You can pray wherever you'd like to, whenever you want. And no matter where you're at, he'll still hear your prayers. Actually, I think it's quite nice to pray outside the church (or wherever you go) with other believers. It lets me know that I'm not the only one that believes in Christ. Well, I hope I helped a bit...
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I wasn't sure which category to put this under, so here it is. I got my 2nd whole pearced around january 15th. its now january 27th. ( 2 weeks i think lol ) i got it pearced with these earring in which are not real gold. My ear have been getting 'gunk' on the back of them. My ear are very senstive. I really want to take them out and change them into earrings that will not irriate my ears. Also i got my cartlidge pearced around December 23rd..and i'd also like to change this one. Would it be safe for me to change my 2nd whole now, like take it out really quick and putting in another earring?
i'd LOVE any help or advice you gave me! (link)
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I have a problem almost similar. If it's not real, my ears itch, and get /reaaallly/ sore. Mom says it's the earings, and that I should stick with real ones.. so I'll just pass that down to you. :P Hope that helps!
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Ok so i really like this guy, i was so excited because his best friend found out and he has a big mouth so i was pretty sure he was gonna tell him and he might ask me out. But now i dont even know if his best friend told him and if he has he hasnt said or dont anything about it. I dont know what else to do, but i still like him alot. what sucks even more if i think he likes my best friend. isnt she lucky, all the guys like her because she is really pretty. i think i am pretty but i dunno. what should i do?? (link)
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First off, how well do you know the guy? if you know him reaaally well, go ahead and find out who he likes.. try and ask casually. If he won't say anything, drop him hints that you like him, and possibly make the first move.. some guys are just too nervous to do anything.. You never know..
hope that helps a bit,
liz
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I'm taking a self-defense class at my school right now, and I LOVE it. I've never really thought about taking Martial arts before, but now I really want to. Would it be weird for me to start now? Do they have adult classes? I'm 16, so I don't know if that's too late or something. Also, which type of Martial arts would be the best? (link)
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I was about 11 or 12 when I took a karate class, and i wasn't the only one in the family taking it. My mom & dad both signed up, and we learned a lot! So no, it's not too late at all. There's plenty of older kids that take those classes anyways..
hope that helps a litle
liz
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I like this guy but i am not allowed to date till i am 18 and i am 13 now. all my friends are dating and this is the most i've felt for a guy. what should i do or say? (link)
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Talk to your parents a bit. Most parents will say that you can't date til 18 because they can't bear the fact that their little kid is actually grow up. Maybe your parents will lower the age limit? Dunno. If that doesn't work, try sneaking a relationship.. Just kidding.. really, don't do that.. :P Try talking to the guy. It'll be your own little test. If he realllly likes you, he'll wait just a little longer.. If he doesn't want to wait, then you don't deserve someone like him.
Hope that helps,
Liz
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ALright well im a girl and im 15 and im about 5'4" and i weigh 90 pounds. i dont have an eating problem or disorder. do i seem underweight? thanks (link)
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I'm 14, and i'm about 98 pounds. My mom says I just have a high matabolism, and it should slow down a bit later. I'm thinking it's jsut the same thing for you. Just make sure you know what to eat and what not, so that when it slows down, you won't get fat... Anyways, you should be fine.
Hope that helps,
Liz
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okay, the only reason I didn't put this under health or something is like I didn't think anybody would read then. Anyway, okay, I have this pain in my side every once and a while, and I am the kind of person that doesn't really tell their family anything! so I haven't told anyone, but my boyfriend and my closest friends, but my friends have been telling me that I should tell my parents,and my boyfriend is starting to freak out and really worry, but I really don't want them to know! But I feel like I just ran a mile and the only time it goes away is when I am excersising really hard, and if I stop then the pain comes back...so I guess, what should I do?
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no, it is not cramps that is what all of my friends said it could be, but it just gets worse, I have had it for 3 days streight now, if that helps... (link)
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You should really get it checked out. Even though I'm a doctor's kid doesn't mean I know too much. But if it's been going 3 days straight then you need to talk to someone, whether it be your parents, a counselor, or (hopefully) a local physician/your familie's doctor. They could tell you if it's nothing to worry about, or something that should be looked at right away. You shouldn't wait on something like this. If you can't talk to your parents, talk to your friends/friends parents, and maybe they could take you to the doctor. Anways, all I can say is, get this checked out.
Hope it helps a little,
Liz
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My old best friend used to like my current boyfriend and we both liked him at the same time. We always fought over him and one day we just stopped being friends. I was so upset but I just moved on and made new friends. We recently started to talk again =) and shes so sweet!! I really wanna be best friends again like before.. should I invite her to hang out or should we just stay at talking on the internet? Thanks!! (link)
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well, if u want to be best friends you should probably go and hang out w/ her.... but if you want to be just friends than you can talk on the internet.....y not try calling her and setting a day up to go shopping?
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i am going away for a vacation and i don't no if i should leave my 2 hampsters and cat w/ my neighbors. they have a cat but i'm not sure if there mom likes rodents or not. (link)
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Dear,___unknown_____
well, first of all you should probably ask ur parents to help you decide. if one of the pets are yours and you don't feel comfortable leaving him/her with your neighbor, you should probably get a friend that won't mind and you trust a lot. hope that helps!
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