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My Mom Is Mad At Me i dont know what to do
I have no idea what to do my moms birthday is coming up and she loves and collects Presious Moments and i really wanted to get her a nice present for her birthday and the presious moment i wanted to get her was 45$ and it was beautiful And like i am really broke rite now and i am young and thats a nice gift when you are as young as i am but i was like what ever my moms worth it so i told her that i found a birth day prsent for her and i was going to go back to the mall to buy it for her and she was bugging me to tell her what it was and i said no and today My Mom took me+my friend to the mall and My friend and me went to Hollister and i didnt know but she went to this store that she likes and spent $80 on Jeans and a shirt and she was like well you can give me these jeans for my birthday and i was like i already figured out what i wanted to buy you for your birhtday and ahe was like you should give me the money because that the pants are more practical and that made me mad that she bought that because we are kinda like in a bad situation with money and she asked me to buy her that and like it got me mad because she didnt even ask me first ahe bought them and just excpectedd i would give her the money you kno and then we got into this huge argument about about that i was a spoiled brat and what ever! and she told me to take the money and shove it up my ass so what should i not give her anything or should i do should i give her the money for the pants or should i buy her the presious moment? i would tell her i was sorry but i am not so i cant give an aplogy and less its sincere becaus i didnt do anything wrong!
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awww well i understand that you are young and don't have a lot of money, i went thru those times a couple months ago before i got a job! i would always spend a lot of money and then be broke for months afterwards..but it felt so good to give gifts. what i would do if i was you, is i would give your mom the money for the jeans. between now and her birthday if you get some more money, buy the precious moment in addition to the money for the jeans. or maybe buy her a less expensive one. remember that your mom really liked the jeans and probably wouldn't have bought them if she didn't think you'd give them to her for her birthday. if you're family is in a bad situation with money, your mom could use the jeans alot more then the precious moment..good luck and don't forget that whether you give her the jeans or the precious moment, shes gonna like both a lot!
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So.. if I understand correctly: She spent the money on the jeans and shirt, and wanted you to give her the money you were going to spend on her present? Then an argument followed and she told you to take your money and shove it up you ass? Hmmm. That's not right.
You intended on buying her a Precious Moments. Buy her the precious moments. Don't even mention the whole mall incident again. The fact that you came up with the idea on your own is the precious part. I hope she realizes that. Give her the gift as if the whole incident never happened.
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If I were you, I wouldn't bring up the situation untill her birthday. When she opens your present, you can then explain to her why you didn't want to get her the jeans. I'm sure she'll understand.
As for getting money for it, try helping neighbors, look around for spare change, and possibly get some jobs nearby. Hope that helps a little bit..
Liz
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