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Why Did I Say that Crap?
I'm 13, girl, and my best guy friend is moving tomorrow morning, and last night I w/bein a jerk, and I cussed him out. I have never made a worse mistake in my life. He's always been there for me always, and now he hates me. What do I do?
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If i was you I would call him up and apologize for everything that you said and tell him why you said it because I have been in the spot that you are now so I understand. But if he has always been there for u im sure he will still be there for u if hes a true friend, after u apologize.
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Apologize, and explain that you are upset because he is moving. Tell him you would like to keep in touch (computer, letters, anything) and that your really appreciate him. You will feel better.
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tell him u'r sre and u were just upset th@ he was leavin. let him say his share if he wants and dont interupt him. make-sure u talk to him right-a-way cuz the best friendships are ended over stupid fights. tell him u know hes been there and u appreciate it you just cant get over that hes not gonna be right there for you anymore and that made you angry. say it was selfish but you cant help it.
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I think you were just mad at the fact that he was leaving so you wanted to take it out on something... Make sure you try and tell him beofre he leaves how truely sorry you are, and why you did it. If he forgives you right then then thats good. But either way I think you should send him a card in the mail after he moves. Maybe put in it some inside jokes that you guys have had, some good times, wish that he likes it there, and let him know youre missing him. I hope this helps and everything works out! I'm always here!! <3 plz rate me
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Tell him how you feel. He's always been there for you right so he should understand. Maybe bring him some homemade cookies or brownies for the trip. Wish him luck tell him you'll keep in touch. Tell him it was the bigest mistake of your life and that you really do care for him.
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Listen to me. If a friend is a true friend, they forgive. He doesn't hate you. If you had this amazing bond like you say you did, (and cussing out isn't the worst thing in the world) He'll forgive you as long as you ask and apologize profusely.
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exPlain to him how You feel and that You are uPset about him leavinG and You Just said it because You were hurt and uPset about him leavinG...tell him how You feel and make sure that You Get everYthinG straiGht because if You dont You will reGret it for a verY lonG time
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talk to him and tell him you are sorry!
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