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Hey there Blondie. Today my friend found out a huge secret of mine. Well, she found out my "Little brother" is really my son. What should I do? (link)
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There really isnt much you can do but if you dont want anyone else to find out then keep telling her how much you dont want anyone else to know.
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I think im fat and thats how I see my self. I think im ugly to. The thing is other people dont. I dont get it am i fat and ugly or not? (link)
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Most people think theyre fat and/or ugly i think its just human nature. I believe everyones beautiful in one way or another.
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For some reason my period stopped but I haven't had sex. Why is this? (link)
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Well if you have an eating disorder you can lose it. You may not know if you have one or not cause most people dont realize they do. You should also check with your doctor.
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I am a blonde and my friends are always making fun of me for it. How do I ask them nicely to stop. (link)
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Well my friends sometimes do the same thing. I don't mind it anymore because I joke around with them. You could also tell them that it hurts your feelings and for them to please stop. Hope I helped!
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Hey. Im thirteen and from Maine. My mom walked in on me and my boyfriend sleeping together. Well it turns out I have all the symptoms of being pregnant and i took the test and tested positive. I don't know if I should get an abortion or not. I want a normal teenage life. I am only going into the eighth grade and I don't want to be looked down apon because I am a thirteen yearold mother. I don't know what to do and I haven't told my friends. What should I do? (link)
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You should go to teenage parent meetings and talk to your friends then decide from there but remember the final decision is yours and it will stick with you for the rest of you life.
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I'm going on my first date w/ a Guy i have liked forever. I think he might want to do stuff. What type of underwear should I wear? (link)
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something comfy yet sexy. Good Luck! and remember always be safe.
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This woman I know from down the street asked me to babysit her kids on friday night. She said she would be home around 11:30- 12:00. When she came home at 12:30 she was very angry at me and i just couldnt understand why. SHe told me it was becuz when she got home the kids were still awake and they were eating ice cream, and cookies, and I broke a wedding champagne glasses and i blamed it on the kids. SHe knew that the kids would never do that. Unfourtuantly i didnt know that. I didn't realize it was such a big deal. She told me not to be offended but she never wanted me to babysit again. I told my parents and they were angry. I also didn't mention about the kids. WHen i told them about the kids they were really angry. Now i am gorunded for a month, and I have not babysitting job. What should i do to prove I am really responsible? ~~ Immature 13 year old babysitter~~ (link)
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Explain what happened and a way to prove your responisble might be to do something around the house like cleaning or takinbg care of pets. It might take quite a while for your parents to think your resposible again. I'm still trying to get my parents to think im responsible fomr like last december when i went to the movies with a group of friends including my boyfriend which they didnt even know i was going out with him.
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Well I'm pretty sure a lot of ppl readin this will know who I am talking about. But lets say her name is Clara. Clara and me and my bff used to be bff's until clara decided she wanted to be popular. She is such an ass hole. She c?ompletly acts like sumthin shes not and treats me like dirt. What should I do (link)
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Tell her how you feel dont be afraid to tell the absolute truth. This happened to me once but it wasnt to be popular and i didnt realize i was doing it untill 2 of my friends got the guts to tell me. I wish they had told me sooner cause i still havent got everything completely back together. Thats probably what she needs to work on getting back to how she was. This is also happening to one of my friends right now which i think i might know who this is that your talking about but ive been meaning to talk to my friend about it but shes at camp so i have to wait until she gets back.
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All my friends have gotten their period except me. I know this sounds stupid but I started wearing pads and putting blood on my pants. My mom saw the red on my undies in the wash and asked if I got my period and I said no it's just a prank my friends pulled. But now my mom thinks I really got it and put a box of tamps under the sink with a little note that read 'If you ever need help inserting the tampon, don't be afraid to ask, love mom.' Now I'm really embarresed, what should I do? (link)
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Tell her you haven't really got it. But all your friends have so your a little insecure about it.
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All my friends tell me I'm fat. I have stopped being friends with them since but now I am really insicure about my body. I never used to think I was fat but now im really worried. What should I do? (link)
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Well, what is your height age and weight? They may be saying it as a joke. Even though to the person it usually isnt funny. You shouldnt worry about that but let me know more about you and i can help you more.
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All my friends have boyfriends and have had their first kiss. How do I get guys to like me?I dont want to be spending friday nights w/ my family forever.
-Loser- (link)
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Its summer get out to the beach, pool, parties, parks, even amusment parks introduce yourself to a guy. Get to know him. Or you could invite people over that you already know. Get to know a guy better that your friends with. Dont be afraid to make the first move. Hope I helped.
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I have this friend, let's say her name is Karen. Well Karen used to cut herself and says she stopped but i don't know. I know she has some emotional problems and insecurities. Sometimes I'll see cuts on her legs, ankles and knees, thats where she used to cut. I want to talk to her about it but I'm worried what she will think if I'm wrong, what should I do?
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Ask her how she's been handling her problems. And ask how she got the cuts. If she trusted you enough to let you know she did before she might tell you. If you don't get an answer or they keep coming up straight out ask her. This happened with someone i know and all that person needed was someone to talk out her problems with someone who would listen and if they started to cry they would have a shoulder from someone they trust to cry on. Maybe thats what your friend needs. Hope I helped. If if keeps happening ask me about more advice.
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I want to lose weight for school next year but I want to do it in a healthy way. What are some good and healthy ways to lose like ten pounds? (link)
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Go running every other day and the days u dont go runnning do sit ups. When you run go for a couple miles. Eat healthy food lay off the sweets, greasey foods and soda.
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i just don't understand, this guy i have liked for 4 years is finally starting to notice me. He asked me to the semi formal this year and i was egstatic. He even admitted to his friend that he likes me! But now people have started telling me that he has said some comments about people thati never thought he would make. they really have made me think twice about him even though they are minor but i don't know what to do! i can't just immediatly stop liking him and in a way i don't want to now that he finally likes me but in another way i do want to stop cause i feel like i've wasted my 4 years on him! my friends say to still like him but i want an outside opinion, thanks
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Sweetheart, go right to the source (the boy)and ask him. If he truely likes you he'll tell the truth. Stay true to your heart. Don't do something because people want you to. Don't get mad at him and blow up in his face or talk behind his back once you find out the truth if it turns out the way you don't want it to. Talk to him kindly and dont get mad. And if your friends are telling you to still like him its their opinion you should be listening to not other people. In the end its your decicion to make not anyone elses. Hope I Helped!
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My friend, say her name is Kara, well kara always says shes my best friend, but i dont think she is. She is always ditching me for someone else. When we're in school, she totally ignores me and goes to flirt with the boys or to hangout with some other friends. I sit across from her in art, and sometinmes see doesn't even talk to me when i'm sitting ight there!! help! (link)
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Tell her how you feel. She might not even realize she's doing it. I know I didn't until two of my bestfrriends told me and what they felt about it. She might get a little mad at you at first (i know i was) but if she does she'll get over it pretty quick. Hope I helped!
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How do u get rid of Acne scars?? (link)
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Try using an ointment you put on cuts thats supposed to make scars less visible. Its called like neosporin i have no clue how to spell it though. Hopefully it'll help. Good luck!
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theres thi sguys and we both like each other alot and everyone sayd like omg you guys already just hook up you both liek each other alot but were both a little iffy about it but we both like each alot.....what should i do im to shy to ask him out casu eim afraid of rejection and cause i have been rejected atleast 4 times in one year it i hate it soo much help me plz (link)
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Sounds like you guys r head over heels. Don't worry about rejection just go for it.
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okay what kinda of things would you do at the beach with your guy friend but he kinda is like your guy??? (link)
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Take a walk along the beach talking maybe holding hands. If he surfs or u do teach the other. Anything you'd do witha regular friend as well. Hope I helped.
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say there thsi guy you like and his friends always say hey would you go out with him and i say yes becasue i like him alot and they just keep asking me that same thing over and over agian what does that mean (link)
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It might mean he likes you so maybe you should ask him out. Guys are a lot shyer than you'd think. he might like you but not sure if he should ask u out cause he wants to make sure u say yes. See how it goes. Also you could ask his friend or him why he keeps asking that. Hope I helped
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okay well im getting back to you and my question was say john my coach was seing a family friend tia but tia was already married and her husband found out and got a divorce and then john and tia are still seeing each other and tia has a daughter kia and still hasnt told her that she is seeing her coach but knows her parents are divorced and as i friend i want to help her but i dnt know if she has any idea what should i do (link)
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Tell kia that she should just talk to her mom about it if she knows. If not you should tell her and then have her talk to her mom. Its kinda hard to get involved in your parents social life so justlet her no and suggest talking to her mom about it and there really isn't much you can do other than that. So I hope I helped.
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