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I really like my boyfriend but hardly any of my friends do and they slag him off in front of me and his best mate (angus) says that my boyfriend's changed since he started going out with me and now loads of people who *did* like him, dont like him. I don't want to lose my boyfriend over this but i dont want angus to lose him best mate either and i'm sick of my friends slagging my boyfriend off. what do i do?
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First off, if you really like your boyfriend, then you should stick up for him when your friends start `slagging him off.` it shows you really care. Take your friends aside and have a talk with them; tell them you don't like it when they slag him off, and tell them to stop it NOW. Also, if your boyfriend has changed since you started going out, then maybe it's for the better and Angus just can't see that right now. Give it time. If your boyfriend didn't like the change, then i doubt he would still be with you. Good luck.
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Well i would talk to everybody and find out how he has changed.. and try to make it back to normal but remember friends do come first before your loved/liked one.. your friends will always be there for you but sometimes a bf/gf wont-trix
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You must be from England. But that's not really the point,the point is why are his friends crapping on him now? ALL his friends can't be doing this without a reason. Talk to one,see whats up,and if they all say the same thing,this guy is trouble. But be careful,your boyfriend's friend might be making his move in on you,too. Gotta watch that,his best mate might wanna mate with you babe.
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teLL yOur friends that if they are yOur *reaL* friends then they wiLL stOp taLking abOut him .. and teLL Angus tO just taLk tO yOur bOyfriend abOut hOw he has changed .. i mean they are best friends sO they can taLk
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tell ur friends that they're great and all but you would really appreciate it if they were nicer to your b/f.tell them u kno they dont like him but u do and that should count for something and they shoould respect that. also tell ur b/f that if hes changed for u or because of ur friends that he doesnt hav to cuz u liked him just the way he was. also try to apologize to his best mate and tell him u never ment for him to change and ur sre if his changes hav started to split them apart cuz u never ment him to change in the first place. tell his mate that you really like ur guy but u dont want him and your b/f to stop bein friends.
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why dont you just confront everyone, and tell them how you feel. or maybe you should tlk to your boyfriend and tell him that you two should hang out with friends more and tell him what people think
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