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Stuck between a rock and a hard place
Ok...this might take awhile. I'll try to make it as unbiased as possible.
I know this girl from school named Bry*. I am not a close friend of hers, I just occasionally talked to her in the mornings. I knew she talked about this guy, Blake*, that she liked. I didn't know his age, what he looked like, or anything.
But some friends and I saw Bry at the movies and she introduced us to Blake. I didn't remember any of this--until I met Blake.
We got along really well and all, and he asked me out. We only knew each other on the net and had met each other once beforehand. We really liked each other so we're a couple now.
News spreads fast, apparently, because the day we started going out, Bry found out. I didn't know it was 'her' Blake at first, but when I found out I had fallen for him and there was really nothing she could do. (I know that sounds mean.) But Bry has a BOYFRIEND (for two months now) and she has sent all her little friends to bother Blake, and to bother me as well.
It's really irritating...she sobs about how her friends get everything she wants, and how jealous she is and 'I thought we were friends?' All her little minions are trying to convince Blake not to go out with me. I've been called 'nasty', 'tomboy', etc. etc. and I feel some of my friends may have less respect for me now...always asking if me and Blake have 'done' anything (kissed, etc. etc.) and I have not kissed him yet, just an FYI.
What should I do? I don't want to be known as a crush-stealer or whatever, and Bry had a boyfriend in the first place! I am just angry that this should happen. I mean I still want to be her friend...but without all the shit inbetween.
(FYI I'm 13, female)
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hi, well i think that you should call Bry n talk to her bout this whole thing...tell her that u understand how she feels n that u'll prolly feel the same way bout this whole thing (which u prolly would) but then mention to her that she has a b/f n that u really like blake n u relly want to b wit him...i relly think she'll understand so give it a try ;) good luck ;) xoxo effy
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tell u'r friends the whole story. u had him before bry* and u didn't even kno it was the guy until AFTER she intrduced him. its not u'r fault that he likes u more then bry*. if she cant deal with that SHE'S oviously used to always getting wut she wants and shes prolly selfish 2. remind everyone that SHE'S not the only one that likes this guy and you hav strong feelings for him 2. and if soumone takes him away from u, u'r gonna be just as heartbroken as bry* is now. if she really liked him why would she stay with her b/f if she likes sumone else? and remind those friends that if they were really ur friends, they would stick by u and be on U'R side. don't take it anymore! talk to ur b/f about the problems and ask him if HE likes bry* back and if he believes everything everyone is sayin. and FYI, wuts so bad about being a tomboy? atleast u'll always be in shape!;) and wut gives them the righjt to label u? they prolly hav a pretty low self esteem and no life if they spend this much time tryin to ruin u'rs!;)
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Well I think if she was a real friend she would be happy 4 u! And you are making a major mistake about caring about this problem! Yuo need to stop thinknig about it and let them try but if he really likes you he wont listen to them. Talk to him and tell him not to listen to what they say! Try acting like you guys dont care!!
I hope I helped,
Bianca
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you are gay and need a girlfriend u batty!
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