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having trouble getting with a girl, that i have no idea how
I did ask a question earlier, and i got some great advice, but i still dont know how to talk to this girl, because i am moving in about a week and if nothing happens i will probably never talk to her again. anyways, i am a guy, 15 years old, and supposedly i am this really nice guy, and i am not like most of the other guys, not like my friends that much either, but i just try to be really nice to everyone and be really helpful and caring and all that, and for this one girl, i know that i will do anything at all for her, but i dont think she knows that - and that is who i am. the thing is, is that, there is this girl that is really really nice and fun and exciting, like no one else i have ever met or known, and i really like her, and admire her and look up to her and all that because of who she is, she isn't like the other girls that much either, and she doesn't like the dating idea, so that doesn't work well because i can't ask her out, and i asked her to maybe go on a walk with me, (i sent her a letter and called her on the phone), and i dont really think she has it in for me or whatever, and i just really want to tell her how i feel, i just want to let her know that i care about her and that she is very special to me, and all that, but i want to say it face to face to her, because i think it means more that way. so far i have called her and we talked a bit and i think she liked it, i think it was a fun conversation, but it really didn't mean anything, just a fun little chat, and at the end of it i told her to get back to me about going on a walk or something, but she just said okay and sounded like she really didn't care, and it has been a week, i have waited to see if she will respond, and she hasn't contacted me at all, and i decided that i'll probably just go to her house a couple days before i move and talk to her that way and tell her how i feel, but i was just wondering if i could get some advice to see if there are any other ways or what i could do, thanks a lot to anyone who gives me any advice!
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write her a poem or a song about how deeply you feel for her.give her time to think about what you said in euther one. try talking to her friends about how much you like her and ask them if you'd ever have a chance with her.
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I know how you feel. It would be nice to have that talk face to face. You should call her up once more and kinda inform her that you want to stop by her place for a little bit before you move. If that doesn't really sound all that great to her you could always tell her you want to hang out a bit more before you leave and just meet up where you want to, could be the mall etc. Hopefully she'll accept your invite and all you have to do is pull her aside for a bit and tell her what's on your mind. Good luck man.
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if your gonna be moving u need to jus talk to this girl i kwo easier said then doen but u may never get to see ehr again. and i think she needs to know how u feel. and you should knwo how she feels bout u to. i mean if i were here and had a guy that liked me that much i would wanna know! b/c its realyl sweet . i really think u should call her and be like u wanna hang out for a little bit one day this week b/c i'm gonan be movin and i wanna spend some time with you b4 you move. i mean whats the harm in asking. i'm sure she'd be up to it, i would. lol so jus call her up and ask her. and when you all are together and your gonna tell her make sure you all are alone on a walk or whatever and stop her and jus tell her. a guy did that to me once and i thougth it was the sweetest thing. I hope some of this can help. Hope everything works out between you and her and u realyl should talk to her b4 u move! *kisses* Ashley
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