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I had a b/f for 9 months. We broke up b/c he wanted to go to drugs and I didn't want to be with someone like that. I told him at the beginning of our relationship if he wanted to do drugs I'm not stopping him but he won't be with me. So he chose drugs...week later he wants me back. I finally stood up for something I believe in, and I know I won't take him back...but what do I say to him?
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well I would say.. hey, u chose drugs over me, why? i dont know but u must really b a crackhead!
well thats what i would say.. and i would stay away from him bcuz he might get u involved in stuff
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tell him you told him once and you ment it. if he choses something as stupid as drugs over you, he must not really love you.
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If he picked drugs over you then he is an idiot. Yeah i know we could all think of better words to describe him but we won't dwell on it.Explain to him that you don't want to get mixed up with people who do drugs.Don't lecture him but make sure you get your point across.Make sure he relizes how stupid his descision was.And don't take him back!
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GOOD FOR YOU! I have sooo much respect for you now. Your bf screwed up. He picked drugs over you. You don't need that stuff and you know it! As for him, tell him how you feel. Tell him, that in the beginning you told him that if he did drugs, your out. He knew the consequences. It was his fault. If you are thinking maybe after some rehab or something that can get him off drugs - for good, you two might be able to get back together again then tell him that! Tell him how much he hurt you also. Maybe he has a brain in there somewhere and can learn from his mistakes - you might be a key factor in his quitting! (if he does) Just be honest and tell him how you feel and what/how he screwed up! He didn't/doesn't know how good he had it! Give tough love. He'll learn. Good luck and keep my updated! I hope I helped! <3 K
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You told him how it was... you gave him the opportunity to fuck up, and indeed he did. He made the choice of drugs over you. He needs to pay the price for that. And that means that you stand by your decision and he must live with his.
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Tell him the truth. If he really wanted you as his girlfriend then he wouldnt have done the drugs.
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Drugs are for losers. The guy is a loser. You don't need him. There are plenty of guys out there who aren't into drugs and won't choose something over you. I'd tell him that he had his chance, he lost it and have a fun life.
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Wow! Thats GREAT you dumped him because of drugs, those are a nasty addiction! It would definitly affect your relationship if he did drugs.. I dont think you should take him back. Tell him that he chose drugs over you and that hurts. Maybe if he completely stops, then yall can take it slow and get back together! Good luck!! =)
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tell him that you are going to stand by what you said and you will continue to stand by what you said because if you give in your just going to disapoint yourself. no guy is worth that. and if he decided to choose drugs over you at all then he definitly doesnt deserve you. just tell him you are not going to be w/ someone who would for minute choose drugs over you and that as long as hes doing the drugs you cannot take him back. and maybe u might never take him back, thats your desicion.
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