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How old is too old?


Question Posted Sunday June 27 2004, 6:59 pm

If you really like a person who is a different age than you are and you are older, what would be considered a "BIG" age difference? Is two to four years a big age difference?

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Additional info, added Sunday June 27 2004, 7:10 pm:
Im older, and Im a girl, which feels really really really awkward!!!!!!!!!!.

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Kate_2003_101 answered Monday June 28 2004, 7:51 am:
Hey no its not too much of an age gap my parents are 6 years apart and if your in love with this person then age doesnt matter and it neve will dont let any one tell you any different because it doesnt matter just keep saying that . as long as your in love with them then its no big .
GOOD LUCK WITH THIS PERSON

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Siren_Cytherea answered Monday June 28 2004, 4:09 am:
My mom told me "The older you get, the less of an 'age difference' there is." When you're 13, 16 seems so long away. But when you're 43, 46 isn't too far behind. 2 to 4 years is not too big of a difference. If you were, like, 21and this guy was 13, there might be a bit of a problem...but I don't think that's what we're looking at. Age is not a big deal. It's a state of mind. =)
-Siren =)

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lynx_wings answered Monday June 28 2004, 2:48 am:
I don't think age matters, and the older you get, the less it matters. I would worry more about experience. If you're in college and dating a guy still in high school, there could be a difference in world experience and your outlooks on life. You could prolly still get past it, though.

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CrAyZcOwGrL_18 answered Sunday June 27 2004, 10:14 pm:
My boyfriend is 2 years older than I am and even though he is a boy that is older and I'm a girl that is younger doesn't mean anything! If you are in love - age doesn't mean anything! I used to think before that age meant something but now, I know that it doesn't! 2nd, two to four years is nothing! Even when I thought age was a factor I was talking about 7+ years. My boyfriends parents are about 10+ years apart and I can tell you that they are so happy with eachother. That is what proved to me even more that when it comes to love - AGE IS NOT A PROBLEM! I hope that you and this person work out. Keep me posted! <3 K

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Fish answered Sunday June 27 2004, 9:01 pm:
It depends. If I was 17 I wouldn't date a 25 year old because the whole life experiences are totally different. So if one of you is out of college and the other hasn't even started (stuff like that) I'd say it's kind of a big difference. But no, two to four years is nothing, even though you get some bad vibes from people in highschool. In college- age differences don't matter nearly as much. I'd make sure what I'd be doing was legal though. But really it all just depends on what you're comfortable with. If you are, great. If you aren't, don't go out with people who are a couple years older.

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storageanddisposal answered Sunday June 27 2004, 7:12 pm:
If it's legal, your fine.

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LykViolencUhavMe answered Sunday June 27 2004, 7:06 pm:
it depends... in high school ages arent to far apart. as u get older age is a lot less of a differance. however if your like 13 and the other person is like 10... well there is a bigg differance there. but like the same age ratio would be completely different if older. like if you were 17 and the other person was 14. i dont think that is to much of a big deal. and then like 20 and 23 is nothing at all.

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DreAmBoi_FaL answered Sunday June 27 2004, 7:04 pm:
Well it all depends on the person really and how old they are. Cause some people that are 50 and 43 are married, 7 years difference. For that age it's ok, but 7 years difference for teens ain't right, heh. 20 year old dating a 13 year old doesn't sound all that great.

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KrAzI_KaT_01 answered Sunday June 27 2004, 7:04 pm:
well my parents are 10 years apart, my mom is 40 and my dad jut turned 50, my friends paernts, tho they are divorced, are like 20 years apart

it all depends on how old u r.
if u 16 and in love wit a 18-20yr old, thats allright, but it's illegal if ya do anything together, if ur 12 and in love wit a 14-16 yr old, well tha 14 yr old is ok, but not 16 yr old

it all depends on how old u r, if ur 15 and over then it's definitly allright, and if it's only a 2 yr difference then any age is fine, actually thats the norm most ppl are 2 yrs apart

thx, and hope i helped

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~~~***KaTe***~~~

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Zero answered Sunday June 27 2004, 7:03 pm:
It all depends on your maturity (sp?) level.

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FernGully answered Sunday June 27 2004, 7:01 pm:
It depends how old you are really. When you are 29 and dating someone who is 25, its not a big deal. But when you are 13 and dating an 18 year old - its a big deal. You have to be within the same age bracket at the same time I think. And the same maturity level as well.

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