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Hey im a crazy chika named kate
im a freshman in high skool
i love to help ppl out
and i hope ya honestly rate me

E-mail: kate1107@msn.com
Gender: Female
Location: nc
Occupation: high skool student
Age: 13
AIM: Xo KrAzI KaTe oX
Yahoo: Xo_SaHwEeT_Lil_Munchkin_oX
Member Since: June 26, 2004
Answers: 14
Last Update: July 8, 2004
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what kind of ferrari was will smith driving in Bad Boys 2 (link)
i think it was a ferrari 575 maranello

hope i helped


okay im 16/f n im a virigin
ive have known ma man for 3 1/2 years and he really wants to do it and so do i.but im so scared b/c its my 1st time and im so scared of gettin pregnant. he told me that we will use a condom and everything but still im not 100% sure.can anyone tell me how can i be 100% sure that i will not get pregnant. (link)
there's no 100% way to make sure u wont get pregnant

o wait yeah there is... NOT HAVIN SEX
ur too young wait, unles ur POSITIVE ur man will stick by ya if ya do get pregnant, he ain't worth losin ur virginity!

but as long as ur on birth control ,and he's usin a condom ur prolly about 98% or 99% sure

Good Luck
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Alright, I'm kind of torn on this issue. My mom and I are really close and we always have been.
There's just a little background info.
My boyfriend and I are planning on getting an apartment together when we graduate. I kind of want to tell my mom because he's away, earning money to put towards our apartment. She always says "If he loves you, then he shouldn't have gone." and I always want to say "Hey, he's doing this for us," and tell her about the whole apartment thing.
Thing is, she's never been crazy about the idea of two people not married living together. I hate to keep secrets from her, though. She's like a friend sometimes more than a mom.
Another issue is...
Yeah, I'm not a virgin. I haven't been since...april? and my mom keeps asking in this accusatory tone of voice "You haven't been having sex, have you?" (this is where she turns into my mom) and I've been saying "What? No. I told you, we're waiting..." or whatever
But I've seriously been considering telling her. She told me when she took me to get the pill that I could tell her if/when I had sex if I wanted to. She left the option open. I've been tempted to tell her recently.
Thing about THIS is, she hates liars. Like, a lot. If I were to tell her now, I'd have to admit that I've been lying since, like, april.
So what do you guys think? Should I tell her about both? One? The other? None?

I'm just looking for an opinion here, mostly out of curiosity. The final decision will obviously be mine. Thanks! (link)
you and your mom are close riiiiite???

well it'll be better to let her kno now then to wait until u move in together

and think, if u wait till u move in together or even longer to let her know about the whole sex issue, she'll get even more mad that u lied that long, so i think u should let her know

but u r rite, the fnial option is up to u
i just hope u make the rite chioce
follow your heart and your conscience... u wouldn't have asked if u didn't feel guilty

Good Luck!!
(rate me PLEASE)
~*~*~*KrAzI KaT*~*~*~


OK, I'm 13 and I havent started my period yet. Is that normal?? All of my friends have started but me. I dont want to get my period but I was just wondering if something's wrong with me. (link)
no, there's nuthin wrong wit u
sum gurlz dont start till their lyk 20, the norm is anywhere between 11-16 if u realy wanna kno, wait ATLEAST a yr, even 2 then consult a Dr.

and like lotz of gurlz will say ENJOY A PERIOD FREE LIFE, it's wonderful, no cramps, u wont worry about whether or not u can go swimmin(unless u use tampons then it dont matter)
u dont have PMS, it's just WONDERFUL! hehe

Good Luck (plz rate me...HONESTLY)
~*~*~*KrAzI KaT*~*~*~


hi has ne 1 ne ideas how to put on a little weight. ppl say eat more but i eat like a horse can sum1 help me (link)
work out and get muscles, if ya didn't kno, muscles weigh more then fat, and if ya eat more, ya could gain weight and look fat, but if ya excersice or work out, u can still keep a good figure, but weight more!!
hope i help
rate me!!
~~~***KaTe***~~~


does anyone know a really good recipe for a dinner [preferably vegatarian, but if it's not that's OK] that could feed a family of 5 or 6? (link)
there's this one, chickin devane, all i know is what to put in it, idk how much tho

ok, you need cream of broccali soup, chicken, and broccali

you cut up the chicken into medium pecies, and you mix it together with the soup and the broccali in a pan

u stick it in the oven for like an hour on 365 degrees, and then u take it out, u also make white rice to go with it

normally my mom makes it with like 3 cans of the soup, and like 2 bags of the broccali, and idk how many chicken breasts maybe 1 or 2

u can try it, we have 6 members in r family and still usually have sum left over, i kno that wut i told u goes in it, it just depends on how much ur makin

sorry i couldn't help more!!


how can i get full responsibility for my son so if me and my husband part he cannot take him away? (link)
it all depends, 1st you go to court
then there might be cusody issues
is he's a good man, he could get custody
unless he's done sumthin crazy like tainted(sp?) him, and if your husband has a good stable job, and is a good parent then he still has a chance

well good luck wit everything, hope your son gets w.e is BEST FOR HIM!
~~~***KATE***~~~


Im 5 ft and i weigh 91 Ibs...is that fat? (link)
NO! actually you should be sumwhere between 95 and 105, well atleast for sum1 5'2, so prety much i guess u should be sumwhere between 90 and 100, so your good, and _-*~DON'T LET ANY1 SAY UR FAT, if they say that or sumthin be like yea o course, im PHAT hehehe_-*~

sorry, random moment...lol :P
***~~~KATE~~~***


If you really like a person who is a different age than you are and you are older, what would be considered a "BIG" age difference? Is two to four years a big age difference? (link)
well my parents are 10 years apart, my mom is 40 and my dad jut turned 50, my friends paernts, tho they are divorced, are like 20 years apart

it all depends on how old u r.
if u 16 and in love wit a 18-20yr old, thats allright, but it's illegal if ya do anything together, if ur 12 and in love wit a 14-16 yr old, well tha 14 yr old is ok, but not 16 yr old

it all depends on how old u r, if ur 15 and over then it's definitly allright, and if it's only a 2 yr difference then any age is fine, actually thats the norm most ppl are 2 yrs apart

thx, and hope i helped

rate me if ya wanna
~~~***KaTe***~~~


i found our my friend has been smoking weed. idk what to tel. i know it's ok to try it but now shes spending her money one it? (link)
if it's really bothering u, which it prolly should be, then let her kno, and it's not even ok to try it, u could die from the 1st try

it's prolly a good idea to talk to her and let her kno u care, and she could be spendin her money on sumthin fun like seein a movie or hangin at da mall wit u instead of doin pot, u should help her get help, she's prolly addicted, and thats not a good thing!


i bite my nails all the time. somtimes i bet them some much or so hard, they bleed. it really hurts but i cant stop especially when im nervous. what do i do to stop?? (link)
this is wut a friend of mine did,

her mom bought her this special nail polish that tastes disgusting, and i think it mite actually be used to brake the habbit

every time you go to bit your nails u'll taste the polish and not want to (the polish is clear)

or u can do this rubberband theory where u put a rubberband or ponytail holder around ur wrist,


how old should you be before you have sex? before you make out? date? thanx (link)
ok
sex- unless you truly love a person, i go for either adulthood or even marriage

dating- maybe once u start 8th grade, or anywhere between 12-14

make out- well idk 13 sounds good (then again i was makin out in 4th grade... spin the bottle lol)

~~~***KaT***~~~

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My best friend is leaving for the air force in 5 days..I just don't think I can handle it anymore. Any ideas? (link)
try your hardest to keep in contact

if ur really that upset about her leavin... well are u able to go too?

i hope it works good for you

just KIT with her and you'll be fine
try to hang wit others while she's away
do w/e ya need to
in the end it'll be ok
hope all works well!!


I don't have alot of friends because everyone thinks that I'm gay. Please help me out (link)
well, if people are gunna believe a stupid rumor like that, they aren't worthy enuff to be your friend, and as for the people you are friends wit, they must be real nice to go against wut every1 says. Maybe you should ask your parents to get you into a peer group, where u meet and hang wit other people.
Hope all works well for ya
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***~~~KrAzI KaT~~~***




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